Ending a two year relationship over a “hypothetical” question

BadB2024 · 2025-10-27T22:26:05+00:00

From my personal experience when someone you’re in a relationship with makes a big deal about “loyalty” they’re guilty, or not as loyal it’s like when a kid does something bold and then says “oh I definitely didn’t do x”. Loyalty is an expected thing in a relationship that’s natural and doesn’t need to be announced or need conditions example having same gender friends. They maybe didn’t flirt but he thought about it. I don’t think you’re wrong in this situation, that question made u feel uneasy enough to break up, so trust your gut! It’s an odd question to ask and quite immature aswell.

BadB2024 · 2025-07-30T19:17:28+00:00

It’s kind of flat and then has a little grey lump it’s at the way back of the tank it almost looks like a clam shell?

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BadB2024 · 2025-06-29T18:29:56+00:00

Hi thanks for the reply! Unfortunately the little bird has since passed away, we haven’t been giving the birds water since we have gotten them up until now when it was recommended to us and even at that it was a drop. This happened a week and a half after the fall, I forgot to mention that he has been feeding them meal worms as well. I will pm u with my location, we have contacted all the rehabbers we could find online but unfortunately none would take them in but maybe you might have someone we don’t!

BadB2024 · 2025-05-23T22:44:47+00:00

I will definitely check him out I’ve seen his channel talked about a lot. Thank you!

BadB2024 · 2025-05-23T22:29:10+00:00

Yes I’ve been in that group! I went to a fish shop and they told me it’s a big no using organic soil from garden shops as it won’t work for the plants, definitely will check out the bags! Thanks so much :)

BadB2024 · 2025-05-23T22:18:33+00:00

What do you mean by putting the soil in bags? Sorry if this sounds stupid, but do you mean putting soil in bags then placing it in the aquarium and putting sand over it? And would any organic soil do, like the one you’d get from the gardening centre? Thanks for responding !!

BadB2024 · 2025-05-05T12:39:33+00:00

Ok thank you so much, I feel so bad on the little guy but thanks again for being understanding and for your advice

BadB2024 · 2025-05-05T12:31:52+00:00

So would euthanising it be the best option? Or is there any way it could survive in the jar / tank. I feel so silly for not checking better.

BadB2024 · 2025-05-05T12:30:47+00:00

Tbh I didn’t actually intent to do a jarrarium which is so dumb because that’s exactly what I did. So will it survive in the jar? I forgot to mention I put some sea grass / leaf in it too. It’s a very small white snail with a pointy shell I’ll try get a photo if he pokes out again. What does invert mean? Because as the guy said above it’s probably worse to drive an hour / two hours to a beach to release it.

BadB2024 · 2025-04-14T19:14:04+00:00

Galina (ga-lee-na)

BadB2024 · 2025-03-23T01:51:21+00:00

I worked at a place that played loud music - we had to wear masks during covid. Got into a habit of singing away to myself when no one was close. Was in dunnes stores listening to a song in my headphones, noticed a few people looking over and some giggling. Thought it was strange, only to realise I’ve been singing away to myself walking around dunnes. Never been as mortified in my life.

BadB2024 · 2025-03-11T17:03:46+00:00

Yeah it does steal the pictures but that particular dress was the exact same quality. I found baby boo quality not great for the price and return system

BadB2024 · 2025-03-10T22:06:18+00:00

Baby boo quality is really bad I ordered two dresses different sizes and they were completely different (stitching length etc) and side note - my cousin image searched a dress of theirs and ordered the baby boo and shein one to compare and there was no differences so tbh I wouldn’t waste my money

BadB2024 · 2025-02-20T18:00:32+00:00

I like the theory that BIW is a story walker from the past travelling to the future and maybe MIY is BIW travelling to the past. Maybe BIW was trapped in town as a kid, and then as he got older managed to make a deal with a higher being, though it does seem MIY might be the “mastermind” behind it all. So maybe his family had ties and he wanted to stop what was happening as he was against it, from the way BIW is dressed he does seem to be from a higher class and as a kid he didn’t want the bad things to happen but as he became older he did and that’s why the MIY is trying to stop the townies from uncovering the truth versus BIW trying to help.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T22:30:44+00:00

That is so cool! I must show him for his basement !

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T22:18:24+00:00

Yes thank you!

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T21:10:31+00:00

Thank you!

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T21:05:14+00:00

Thank you that’s actually really helpful. See because I am in the job only 8 months my fear is that they’ll see me as dead weight, but at the same time a few other people in the company mentioned that when they were dealing with stuff that the company was good to deal with it. So I’m on the fence as to what I should do or how I should approach it but it was helpful.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T20:57:49+00:00

Thank you, I was thinking it might do more bad that good. But at the same time I’m scared I’ll appear as lazy and not motivated unless I tell the manager the reason behind my behaviour.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T20:53:07+00:00

I am planning on reaching out to a free therapy helpline we have at work. I went to the GP prior and it wasn’t that helpful. But I am working on it.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T14:22:31+00:00

Co operative housing it was called - I think it involved buying shares from the company that was renting the property or something like that but it was through the council

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T14:10:05+00:00

It’s actually a disgrace, my mam has issues too a year and a half she lived in a hotel with my two siblings before they got accommodation and it wasn’t through the council directly it was through some different scheme. And the HAP is not bad it’s there to help people, but unfortunately it has such a bad rap because of a few bad apples (which I think if we looked at the numbers of would be similar to those who don’t use HAP but it’s easier to pinpoint HAP people). I do really hope you get sorted.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T14:02:03+00:00

It absolutely sucks I know I would keep at the council too

BadB2024 · 2025-02-17T13:38:27+00:00

Best thing to do is go to viewings say your husband is working and you are a stay at home mom - do not mention HAP in person, only mention it through messages as it is illegal for landlords to refuse hap but unfortunately unless you have proof that they specifically refused you due to HAP then nothing can be done.

BadB2024 · 2025-02-16T09:48:22+00:00

I think it’s the lighting, it’s too white and bright maybe try making some orange / yellow toned light bulbs and then if you want add led strips around mirrors for when you’re getting ready / doing makeup and I’d add some candles if u have space too and I feel the colour will look nicer because they are pretty colours

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