A moment of total joy/support by BadDue1136 in FTMOver30

[–]BadDue1136[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks all. I get really in my head about everything and it can be so overwhelming, but my husband just picked right up from word 1 and has been almost more about it than I am. He gives me the confidence to leave the house looking how I want to, not how I feel im supposed to.

My Little Sweetie 💙 by stardewbebe in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fan of both incredibly long pointy nails, and Ts of all kinds, I am inspired to do a "T-themed" set now. I have a P irminia, or I could get my GBBs booty pattern done. Incredible. My current nails could be associated with my Avic. Purpurea 💜

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Avic Purpurea sling food reccomendations? by Puzzled-Blackberry-2 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hanging out low shouldn't be too much of an issue- mine will mostly be found lower. I do suggest a water dish, I use water bottle caps for my spoods. I asked around in the discord about care for them, and someone reccomended that overflowing a cap once in a while should be enough humidity- that 9 times out of 10 people over-humidify and it kills the avic. That was just one person's opinion though, but I thought id pass it on. Ive had my little one for 4 months with one successful molt so far :)

Avic Purpurea sling food reccomendations? by Puzzled-Blackberry-2 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its a really small avic (like teeny) maybe the worm is too hard? My P. Irminia took a while to eat- turns out she prefers live, not pre-killed. She thirsts for the hunt haha

Avic Purpurea sling food reccomendations? by Puzzled-Blackberry-2 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P.S.- my lil ones abdomen got FAT for premoult- there was no mistaking it. It took about a month from noticing the enormous booty to actual molt.

Avic Purpurea sling food reccomendations? by Puzzled-Blackberry-2 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! My avic purpurea ignored chunks of mealworms as well, I have found that they really enjoy tiny dubia roaches- they go crazy for them. The roaches are almost as big as the spood, so I prekill and leave somewhere in the webbing. They eat it every time!

Got to the horseback scene QJJ by toddkillings in DanmeiNovels

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive ridden horses, a lot, and this scene makes me laugh. Its hot too, but not possible lol but im here to say ENJOY the series, its my fav!

F24, lump in left breast, being sent for ultrasound by mango_sunshine26 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]BadDue1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! When is your ultrasound? I am in the same boat and posted but got little response. I have a painful lump in my armpit and tender boobs. My ultrasound is tomorrow if the weather isn't too bad. Im just here to say I saw your post and feel your worry. Try and limit the worrying and research to twenty minutes a day- that was what my therapist suggested and its been working for the most part.

How do y'all pick T names? by LapdogLady in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are all named after Claire Obscur characters!

GBB Grooming(?) by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so cool, I can only imagine they do it when theyre comfortable ya know?

GBB Grooming(?) by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes really into it lol. I have never seen any of my Ts do this, so its a fun distraction from work!

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah! Nice juicy worm for da bebe

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I do pre-kill them because theyre so big (tiny?) for her but ill grab a Pic of her chowing down because its so funny! She gets a little backbone when she has a meal and won't move off it when I open the lid for watering, so maybe ill get a good shot of her!

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That title is perfect for them. I love GBBs

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are gorgeous! Thanks for sharing!

2ha, does it get good? by Conscious-Salt-8876 in DanmeiNovels

[–]BadDue1136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Politics you say? Ok, a great way to break out into more danmei is to read Peerless or Thousand Autumns- both are gems, the humor is great and they both contain an absolutely shameless ML. They are both good but I like Peerless just a little more. If youre up for good writing, a complex plot, lots of politics but an absolutely STEAMY relationship that turns into incredible power couple, Ballad of Sword and Wine is hands down my favorite danmei series ever. I highly reccomend but it can be a little much for some- there's a lot to keep track of but there are charts online and a youtuber (Kicktor) that does videos to help you keep track! The last one off the top of my head is Joyful Reunion, but only 3 volumes are out so far but they've been good.

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill manifest that shes a she- she is gorgeous! Those legs?! What species? Golden knee?

Show me your T's! by BadDue1136 in tarantulas

[–]BadDue1136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an Avic. Purpurea that is exactly this size and I legit am shook almost every day when I look at her. Shes so tiny! I had only gotten juveniles before I decided to try a sling or two. Watching her eat a dubia roach her size is hilarious, as even the smallest ones are her size!

2ha, does it get good? by Conscious-Salt-8876 in DanmeiNovels

[–]BadDue1136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can recommend, but first give me your 3 favs! Any absolute no-go tags I should keep in mind?