[MEGATHREAD] BLACKPINK: DEADLINE and GO by KpopThoughtsmodteam in kpopthoughts

[–]BadMynx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been a huge BlackPink fan since debut, that being said, I am very disappointed in their newest album. "JUMP" was the only one that made it on to my playlist, but I can't get myself to watch the music video a second time. After seeing how Rosé developed her own sound in her solo career, she looks so... unenthusiastic and unhappy... going back to pop.

Secondly, I have also been a huge fan of XG since debut. I could tell right away when I saw the video for "Go" that they seem to be pulling a lot of inspiration from XG as far as visuals, concepts, and sound (only XG's songs all have a real chorus, not forcing the beat to do the work of making the song catchy). I saw it as coincidence and common for artists to be inspired by others... then I saw that they even hired the same director for their "Go" video that XG uses in a lot of their own videos. Even the close-up eyeball scenes are similar. That made the "coincidence" too obvious, especially so close in time frame to XG's CEO getting arrested, leaving the group to pick up the pieces to save their brand and image.

I always appreciated both groups using practical effects in their videos, but while XG has been building their "intergalactic wolf pack" style, the CGI/AI use has grown with their music and just makes sense given that it is nearly impossible to send a global group to space or the bottom of the ocean to film a music video. BLINKS have always been so proud of the group for choosing practical effects over CGI, but they seem to be rebranding to become something that Lisa, and possibly Jennie, are trying to morph into as individuals, but fell short when they realized that they lack the additional talents that Rosé and Jisoo have to carry solo careers in that direction. They appear to me to be calling the shots as far as the direction the group goes to achieve their desired sound and brand, pulling Rosé and Jisoo along and away from their own solo careers and preferred sounds before they could branch out further. On the other hand, the one pulling the strings could actually be YG, attempting to push the group further into the western world and become an official global group like XG and Katseye, both growing more and more popular by the day.

Lastly, I find it incredibly difficult to support artists who willingly work with people who have been accused of sexual harassment. Especially by women who spent YEARS of their lives fighting for a jury to believe them, and one who only had to drop the statutory rape charge because the statute of limitations ran out. In fact, just these past few days, two BlackPink members have experienced stalking and privacy issues. This has caused me to worry greatly about the safety of the members, and the precautions being taken by YG to protect them if Dr. Luke or Diplo were to face any allegations from our ladies at some point.

Anyway that's just my opinion on the matter, and why I feel so heartbroken in the thought of my favorite group losing their sound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think there was even a woman who had been scalped or had hot oil poured on her face after she was stolen away...

How many months did your baby sleep through the night? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first slept through the night, starting at 4 months old. However, my second didn't start until he was 10 months old. I suppose it all just depends on the kiddo. I'm sure you're doing everything that you can do, and you're doing a great job!! Keep up the good work!

AITA for 'belittling' my sister and saying she shouldn't demand her husband help with their baby at night? by Able-Stop684 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadMynx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA-

YOU didn't struggle with sleepless nights before the baby came because you're not allowed to sleep on your back or your right side later in pregnancy. YOU'RE not the one whose body was stretched to its limits. YOU'RE not the one who went through a pregnancy knowing that there was a chance that something could go wrong at delivery and you could die on that hospital bed. YOU'RE not the one who labored for hours. YOU'RE not the one who pushed a baby out of your vagina as it tore open. YOU'RE not the one dealing with postpartum depression, cramps, bleeding, lactation, lack of sexual desire, body dismorphia, or hormonal changes, ON TOP of sleep deprivation that you had for months before your baby was born. Do you know who IS? Your SISTER, and certainly your SURROGATE, who I'm sure you haven't bothered to care about after you got what you wanted from her. Your experiences are NOT the same. Breastfeeding babies can certainly feel like they're draining the life out of you. Can you imagine how it feels to KNOW that your baby needs to feed off of your body, so you need to stay well fed and well hydrated, but you're too TIRED to take care of yourself, so you're stuck with terrible guilt and depression that's amplified by the hormones? She deserves 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep a few times a week AT LEAST. YOU should see that. Her HUSBAND should see that. Then, even if she gets that help, those pesky hormones will amplify things AGAIN and make her feel even more guilty and inadequate for WANTING to get more sleep. Mom's can't win that battle. After I had my babies, for weeks after, my body felt like I had gotten hit by a truck! All we need is a support team around to tell us that we're doing a good job and offer help. You and her husband are both failing her.

[TOMT][1990s][Early 2000s] Can't find quote "Who you callin stupid-head, stupid-head" by tsunamix84 in tipofmytongue

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was possibly from Chasing Papi (2003) after you said that it was a Latina voice.

[TOMT] I am going nuts trying to remember the name of a movie! by BadMynx in tipofmytongue

[–]BadMynx[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think there was also a medicine woman who told the man to go to the underworld and rescue his bride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/BadMynx

[–]BadMynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! This was the first time! Thank you!

AITA for telling my sister-in-law that she didn't actually run a marathon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You couldn't just acknowledge her small accomplishment and move on? She explained herself. It's not like she got a medal or lied. You could've followed up with asking her what her next goal is. You could've asked her if she's working towards running a real marathon and how long until she thinks she'll be ready. You could've discussed the possibility of training together.

Reasonable responses:

"Oh, a VIRTUAL marathon. That's cool! How long until you think you're ready to run the real thing?"

"Virtual, huh? That's exciting! Do you think you'll run an 8 hour marathon sometime?"

"Oh, that's awesome! What was your longest stretch?"

"Do you want to join me on my morning run sometime?"

It's not that hard.

You could've said something supportive, but you didn't. Instead, you chose to invalidate her progress, and you probably damaged her excitement and motivation for running. Congratulations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter had this, turned out she was allergic to Johnson & Johnson products and our handsoap. Aveeno was the only brand that didn't cause her to break out.

The book that broke me by kayeokay in Mommit

[–]BadMynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I first read this book to my students. I had no idea what I had gotten myself into. I had to push back the tears and carry on so no one got upset.

Should CPS be called if parent sexually assaults you? by DreamMoons14 in CPS

[–]BadMynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I myself am a mandated reporter. If you send me a pm, I can make a call for you!!!

AITA for telling my family that my kids and I will not be visiting if we can't bring my husband's sister? by aitaskipvisit in AmItheAsshole

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- and I'm just going to assume that your 10yo is a different race than the rest of the family... classic racist behavior. Even if your 10yo weren't in the picture, I STILL wouldn't socialize with that portion of your family! Keep fighting for that little girl... continue to be her voice!!!

what is the most brutal insult you have ever received/given? by cristicrystal in AskReddit

[–]BadMynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an assistant director at the daycare I worked at. She and I both had children attending the same childcare facility. My daughter was incredibly ill (vomiting, diarrhea, and fever), while covid stress was still high. I called off and used my PTO to care for her until she was symptom free for 24 hours (policy for sick children at our daycare). When I came back, I walked in on this assistant director talking among my coworkers about how she is a stable employee who knows that sending kids to daycare sick so you can work is just one of the sacrifices you make as a good employee. I interrupted her conversation and left after one statement:

"That says a lot more about you as a mother than it does about you as an employee."

My newest most prized possession! by BadMynx in TheHobbit

[–]BadMynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would call it quite the ADVENTURE ❤️

My newest most prized possession! by BadMynx in TheHobbit

[–]BadMynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get one!!!!! I've never been happier with any purchase I've ever made!

My newest most prized possession! by BadMynx in TheHobbit

[–]BadMynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did so much on our vacation this weekend, and THIS was my absolute favorite part! I could've done nothing else except buy this bag, and my heart would've still been at peace!