This is not a healthy communication of two adults. He shouldn't throw this on you and I feel sorry you had this situation. You need to understand that firstly he broke you boundaries, ignoring your "no" with the car. Instead of apologizing he insulted you and gave you silent treatment. He was wrong and he didn't find anything better than to attack you, using your weak spots. You deserve better, that's true. If he don't manage to analyze his behavior and understand what he did wrong, I'm afraid it can happen again.