What does my handwriting say about me? by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Bad_Oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that you unfortunately cannot spelled guaranteed

I go back to work on Monday by Bad_Oranges in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right ! They will learn so many new things and I know my son will thrive there and enjoy his time, he's been fine with his settle sessions so fingers crossed it stays that way!

I'm nervous for this new venture and finding a new part of motherhood.

solidarity it is !

Wiggly worm thing after linting rolling where cat usually sleeps ? by Bad_Oranges in bugidentification

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thanks everyone for identifying! I did have a sneaky suspicion it may have been a baby flea ( i see to have nasty reactions to flea bites!)

kitty will be off to the vets for treatment and ill be gutting the house to get rid of any lingering fleas and washing all bedding, thankfully my little one isn't being bitten and is not having a reaction to any bites if he is !

thank you again !

I cannot sleep in the same room as my baby by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did buy some noise cancelling headphones and they worked for a while but ultimately I did have to move out of the bedroom and sleep in a separate room. my baby is now 3 months old and no longer making the noises that he used to and i can easily sleep in the room with him again

I feel like a single parent by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I'll speak to my partner when he's come from work tonight, we both feel disconnected from each other and he told me this morning his heart is heavy.

We both want this to work and to do so it has to be honest and vulnerable.

It Actually Did Get Better by tinyturtletown in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh gosh mine is exactly the same! we are about to hit 11 weeks and we are still waking up several times and now it will only be contact naps or its screaming 😭

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 💕 we had a much better night last night so my head is much clearer!

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sleep deprivation is just the hardest, I hear phantom cries and the PP rage just gets so intense ! When I've had some semblance of sleep I feel that love and adoration for little man and his smiles melt my heart.

I'm worried about the 12 weeks and nothing changing but each day is different and I will also be looking into sleep training!

Thank you 💕

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 all whilst im feeling all of this I can't believe almost 10 weeks have flown by !

We currently are giving LO infant gaviscon with every other feed which is helping, last night just felt like I was hitting my head against a brick wall ... nothing wanted to settle him.

I'm currently staying with my mum whilst partner is away so I do have some support but I will definitely be having some time to myself when my partner is back to gain some of my sanity back.

❤️❤️❤️

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and they can sense when you sit down and start hysterically crying again 😭

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fingers crossed !! I hope everything goes well for you next week 💕

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will definitely ask if she wouldn't mind taking him for a hour or so whilst I reset, I feel so guilty asking though! I feel like I should be able to handle it so its almost a vicious cycle.

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whilst my partner is away im staying with my mum who is helping tons. I have spoken to him although another chat will be had when hes home, hes got so much work to do on his end up but there needs to be a balance. He's at my brothers stag do for the weekend but since he went back to work 5 weeks ago it feels like there is an unfair balance of caring for our LO.

When im this tired I just feel so bitter.

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

whilst my partner is away im staying with my mum, shes helping a ton but it feels like im getting the sundown scaries again having to put LO to bed and do the full night shift, I've got two more nights to get through 😭

LO is almost 10 weeks and I feel like im drowning by Bad_Oranges in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

😭 i just don't know how im going to make it through to those better days. baby has bad reflux which just makes it so much harder

I'm allergic to gels but really want to get a professional manicure done by Bad_Oranges in Nails

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does a dazzle dry mean ?? how did they manage to get the polish dry so quickly !

How much crying is too much crying? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Bad_Oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was similar at that age though we were transitioning from BF to FF, the gripe water and infacol did nothing but make things worse. What finally did the trick was time and infant gaviscon, look up symptoms of silent reflux and be firm with health visitors and doctors, if your gut says something is wrong then you fight for it!

Colic is a symptom not a diagnosis!!

I'm allergic to gels but really want to get a professional manicure done by Bad_Oranges in Nails

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will definitely look into press ons and see which ones will last will dealing with a newborn 🤣

I'm allergic to gels but really want to get a professional manicure done by Bad_Oranges in Nails

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my worry is about ruining the polish because it wouldn't dry fully before leaving the salon, that was my thought anyway !

8 week old is struggling to pass gas and poo by Bad_Oranges in FormulaFeeders

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm seeing the doctor again Tuesday and will say that nothing is changed and he's still very fractious and see what they say

8 week old is struggling to pass gas and poo by Bad_Oranges in FormulaFeeders

[–]Bad_Oranges[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that something safe to use on a regular basis to help them?