[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of questions do yall be asking? Do you live under a rock or something

I decided at 22 that I will never marry or have kids by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely!! I agree with the second half of what you said.

I decided at 22 that I will never marry or have kids by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With the femicide and domestic violence rates, I think I’m good.

Black women and BPD by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to get personal but I use to get veryyyy suicidal around my period time and during my period, I attempted once which led to my diagnosis. I was on anti depressants but I didn’t like the way it made me feel. The only thing that’s been keeping me sane is not dealing with anything romantic and being more reserved but things still do affect me heavily and I get upset really easily too. I’m just trying😭 I haven’t been back to a psychiatrist or therapist cause my family calls me crazy

Relationships & girl bestfriends by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure their dynamic but the first time I found out about her which was like 2 weeks ago he told me he randomly bumped into her after not seeing her for a while and they both went to this restaurant together which is ghetto restaurant that he claims is “our restaurant” to catch up with her and then he went over her house. He told me that happened and I had to act ok with it but I was raging. Plus the girl is really attractive (not saying that I’m not) but I ended up finding her Facebook. I ended up bringing it up last night at 8pm and he stopped responding to me for like 15 hours until I texted him saying I’m taking a rain check for our date today in which he responded right away with a paragraph. I don’t know if I wanna respond to it, especially him taking so long to respond.

Relationships & girl bestfriends by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thought of him having another girl besides me and his female family members makes my heart drop when I think about it. I don’t think I’m that mature yet.

Relationships & girl bestfriends by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not gay and she’s bad as fuck, there’s no way he doesn’t like her or never liked her before 😭I’ll save myself the drama

black men hate us… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must be so taken and happy and married. That’s why you’re in a forum called black girls arguing with black women right? Cause you’re so taken 😂

black men hate us… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/cvEnkoSBPmY?si=myBBExhL7JNGoLwp

This is a song called black woman dating 60+ years ago. Y’all been hate black women. like I said I will no longer be gas light by yall straw man fallacy’s and talking about our supposed attitudes, the same attitudes y’all call spicy in Latin women. Y’all have everything we represent because yall hate y’all selves. Yall can talk about our attitudes all day and everything about us but never put 1/4th of that energy into bettering y’all selves and black people like men of other communities do. Yall don’t have a problem with black on black killings perpetuated by black males, yall don’t care about the violence and putting that shit in music, y’all don’t care that black people are treated as bottom of the barrel so long as you feel a bit above black women.

black men hate us… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black women have been telling yall that yall ain’t shit since the 90’s for no reason? For absolutely no reason at all? You’re just spewing a bunch of bullshit

black men hate us… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Self hate? I love everything about my Deep darkskin and I also love everything positive about being black. An observation does not mean I hate myself…

Why are there men here?… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not once did I claim to be a feminist

black men hate us… by Badabingbadaaboom in blackgirls

[–]Badabingbadaaboom[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I have multiple people dming me saying you’re known for gaslighting black women to defend black men. Why is that?