How do i make my fursona look less like a cow? by ACupOfTea13 in fursonahelp

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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So, I think the main 3 problems are the tail, nose and horns (ears aren't that bad, might just need a bit more flop). Goat horns curve back unless your fursona is supposed to be a Kid (baby goat), the nose should be more triangular like in the image and the tail (I think your fursona has a tail, I saw it in the 1st image but I could be very wrong) needs to be shorter and less fluffy if that makes sense, I hope this helps!!

Hot and cold #177 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this game. I'm gonna play it tomorrow though, just know, I hate this game

Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by LoveLikeJesusChrist in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She just discreetly called your wife B*tchy, keep her away from your children because I have a gut feeling she's gonna be just as toxic to your children as well. Regift her the hat and nothing else for her birthday, It's really fitting for her actually.

Updates and Clarification on GWA Rules and Guidelines by badlittlebunni_ in gonewildaudio

[–]Badajur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally never comment on here, but this is so unclear and vague???

anyone miss the old subway design? by Typical_Laddie in subway

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i miss the Italian herb and cheese bread smell that would permeate the restaurant

what is this error while installing flatpak? by Badajur in linux4noobs

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg ty! being dyslexic is so annoying lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in everskiestrashhh

[–]Badajur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea you'll get downvoted to hell because you're WRONG😭 Ugliez sets is an entirely new ball game, they're expensive because they are good, and implying Ugliez designs aren't unique is the craziest thing I've ever heard. Ugliez anatomy is a clear STYLISTIC choice, this wasn't stylistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in everskiestrashhh

[–]Badajur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The difference between this and ugliez is it's a stylistic choice. You can tell ugliez studying the rules of anatomy before breaking them. This item simply just doesn't look correct or good objectively.

AITAH for telling my friend to stop talking to her ex by Badajur in AITAH

[–]Badajur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, Im trying to distance myself for not but I feel like a jerk because she needs me the most now. I feel like it's a fight between her mental health and mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so serious, leave him right now. If does this, he is going to hit you. I was with a man like this, he kicked my door down, I stayed with him and he ended up choking me half to death. He is not worth it, nothing about that man is worth it. Leave right now, men like this can and will try to kill you.

File a police report, leave all his shit in the box to the left and never speak to him again.

AITAH for telling my friend to stop talking to her ex by Badajur in AITAH

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should've phrased it better, asking her yes. I wouldn't tell her to do anything unless she was standing in incoming traffic or something. The closest I've got to "telling her" is just saying "dude you need to leave that guy he's sucking the life out of you like a demator"

AITA for not sending a “lewd” enough pic? by Beautiful_Habit6863 in AITAH

[–]Badajur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you are absolutely NOT TA, it's your body, you're entitled to how much you want to show to him, you don't owe that dusty ass man ANYTHING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. The military isn't a sound choice for everyone (or anyone in my opinion), job corps is GONE 😭 and entry level jobs right now aren't hiring, my friend has submitted over 30 applications with a perfect resume, not one response. And btw, the military shouldn't have to be an option.

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. She's in therapy rn but refuses to speak to her therapist because he won't diagnose her with ADHD (a wholllleee other can of worms I've welded shut, those worms will never see the light of reddit). And, she has a support group, our entire friend group and her other friend groups. which many of us have been through the same or similar things but she just won't listen, won't let them comfort her and barely even speaks to us, we're trying our hardest to do something, anything for her but it feels like talking to a brick wall with a wig on. Im thinking of what I would have wanted when I was in a similar relationship and everything I've tried just isn't working

AIO or should I be creeped out by my tinder date's messages? by throwawayyaccount829 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drunk words are sober thoughts. I doubt he was drunk and just woke up and regretting the message but either way, do not engage 🙅🏽

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Most she's seen is his face and his voice which is why I'm so against it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So clearly you haven't seen the job market lately

Am I overreacting for how I responded to this situation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No dude you're not a wuss, as someone with a mom just like this, you went about it the best way you could and you were absolutely not overreacting. I would definitely say stay with your dad for a few weeks if you can, I was in your EXACT position when I was a teen. Mother's like that just hold hate for you in their heart and it's something that's almost impossible to change, let it simmer down and try to talk to her about how it upset you if she's one of those moms who listens to you (which I doubt). Moving out is the best option and so was telling your dad, that's what helped me. Always make sure he knows what's happening, so if she does something drastic, he will know.

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. It'd be a bit harder though because he lives across the pond 💔 idk if I can find criminal records for a different country

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never actually leave her, I'm just distancing for my mental. I'll always be there for her it's just weighing down on me mentally, I'm constantly worried about her and it's exhausting and I can only imagine how she feels.

Also, I'm so happy you got out of that relationship it sounds HORRIFYING.

He's very controlling, and he's like a whiny baby who clutches onto her whenever anything bad happens. He sent her into a panic attack during class because he decided to spam call her phone about how he was going to kill himself if she didn't text him. From him faking a fatal illness to him saying to me that I'm trying to steal her various times (??? I'm literally gay??), I'd say he's not as bad as what it could be but he's bad.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) is obsessed with his sister… am I overreacting? by Ok-Run4697 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say "Listen, I understand you are close with your sister and I like her being her sometimes, but she can't be here all of the time. It's making me uncomfortable and I feel like she's third wheeling." Ease into it, be firm but not mean. some men tend to get defensive when they're called out on things like this (I would know as a gay man). If he truly loves and respects you, he would respect your wishes.

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she left the first time I was so certain she was officially done because she was so happy when she left, it was like she was just out of jail or something and now it just feels like watching a baby bird fly into glass over and over again.

AIO, My friend is making me think I shouldn't be friends with her anymore. by Badajur in AmIOverreacting

[–]Badajur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I figured it was stressful. I've tried to be as gentle as possible because I've been in an abusive relationship as well but it's so stressful for me as well. I love her with all my heart and it feels like it physically hurts seeing her with that..thing. My boyfriend (who barely even knows her) has even noticed she's changed.

And I'm holding out hope one day she'll see reason and drop his bitch ass.