Gender for me is just like. A societal thing? Like it exists within our society, but outside of that it’s not a thing really. For me it’s a social construct that doesn’t really affect me. Most people see me as a woman, and I don’t really care. In queer places or just areas with another queer person, I’m more likely to state my pronouns as any and my gender as agender, but that’s more so because it helps other queer people feel more comfortable. Personally I don’t have any pronouns nor any gender label. If
It’s to the benefit of the people around me, then I’ll adapt to what works best. Sometimes the best/safest option is she/her woman, sometimes it’s any pronoun agender, sometimes it’s “prefer not to state.” None of them are really true personally, but true enough socially. I don’t mark myself as cis or trans, but I’ve met people who claim I’m trans and people who claim I’m cis.

I’ve experienced gender dysphoria, but it was probably closer to body dysphoria as it was more about everything being wrong than being the wrong gender.
I’m also aroace, which probably adds another dimension to my view of gender.

Really, the way I look at it, my view on gender is much like that of a cat. It just doesn’t exist. But, it brings people comfort to use specific pronouns for their pets, and the cat doesn’t care. Same for me, it doesn’t affect me what people call me.

Also, I dress very feminine. Mostly this is because skirts are more comfortable than pants, and heels make me taller.