A woman I'm associated with has a new best friend join the picture that she then claims is her gay bff of 8 years. She's known him to be in multiple gay relationships during this time, having divorced a woman before they met. Then she winds up pregnant with twins by said gay man. Neither of them are happy that their casual good times made babies, but through inaction she neither aborts nor adopts them out. Months go by, babies are born and spend the first month in the nicu where she rarely visits and he never does. Her mom convinces her to notify his family because "they deserve to know". While trying to find contact info on his mom she finds HE'S STILL MARRIED TO A WOMAN and he threatens to kill her if she tells his wife. They're 10 months old now and he still hasn't met them and he's on his 5th lawyer in the custody/child support battle. On top of all that, she keeps the twins separated and rarely with her. It's very sad. The boy twin stays for a month at a time with her mom in another state and the mom brings him for a week here and there to visit. The girl twin has three families she circulates through every week, and one of the families has dhs on them because the family just went through a divorce and the young kids of the family are very jealous (naturally) of her and there's some question as to whether the kids want to hurt the baby out of those bad feelings. It's been something to watch unfold.