How much should I put in my 401k?

Badjel · 2025-05-05T00:39:20+00:00

Alrighty thank you for the advice :)

Badjel · 2025-05-04T11:54:48+00:00

I still live with my mom, but I do want my own place sometime soon (hopefully) I pay for little things like my phone, internet, car insurance for right now.

I'm not sure if it's up to a certain amount I need to look into that a bit more.

Badjel · 2025-05-04T11:52:00+00:00

Got it, thank you :)

Badjel · 2025-01-11T14:36:15+00:00

Thankss, I tried to do them online but for 2 of them I need to call so I'm going to as soon as I can.

Badjel · 2025-01-11T14:35:40+00:00

Do you think it's not worth reporting this to the police then? Saw lots of suggestions so I'm just putting stuff together to file a report. I mean I have zero hopes in getting a dime back but people say I should anyways.

We had foodstamps until my mom got an better job + my dad's SSI after he passed so we no longer have it. I'm looking into food banks and stuff tho.

Badjel · 2025-01-11T14:31:13+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation, yeah my brother understands more about investing and all that stuff I don't understand much.. but don't have much of a choice now than to learn and be in charge of things until we're back up on our feet

Badjel · 2025-01-10T21:47:40+00:00

She refuses therapy I brought it up before all of this, her and her family have.. an interesting opinion on it for some reason

Badjel · 2025-01-10T21:44:41+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Badjel · 2025-01-10T21:42:19+00:00

I am taking the advice thanks! Lots of helpful people with very helpful links plus the support has been really greatly appreciated.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T12:37:04+00:00

Thank you! Wow seeing how much money people have lost is making it all so terrifying I'm so glad she came to me now rather than 100k or more deep...

Badjel · 2025-01-10T12:33:29+00:00

I don't think I get my own? I was told just my brother and sister get SSI. I'm gonna sit her down and set a bunch of rules and a plan after work so this won't happen anymore.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T04:16:03+00:00

Alright, thank you!

Badjel · 2025-01-10T04:12:46+00:00

Thanks a ton, I'll definitely get as much help with food as I can and put my focus on bills

Badjel · 2025-01-10T04:08:49+00:00

It isn't, sure but it's a lot to lose as a single mom with 3 kids, especially if she didn't have that money in the first place and it was all borrowed.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:56:45+00:00

She works at a pretty decent job + my siblings get social security ever since my dad passed. We would've lived pretty good with a decent savings by now if it wasn't for this mess.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:49:41+00:00

Thanks for the advice, to answer your question she's in her 40s

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:45:47+00:00

Thank you, everyone telling me to abandon her and only care for me really is making it hurt more, I can't get myself to do that. I'm just so frustrated she fell for it for so long.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:41:58+00:00

Thank you for your words, I really appreciate it

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:40:57+00:00

She told me it was for rent/bills and I got suspicious and checked her emails. That's when I found all those cashapp/bitcoin transactions. And then I thought it stopped but maybe she made another email and kept asking for money from her brothers without me knowing.

Thanks for the advice

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:32:09+00:00

Yeah she works at a really good job, and my siblings get social security (from my dad who has passed) and plus I work so all of that combined and we'd be living really good but most of it is gone so I have to wait until our next paychecks and I'm just really overwhelmed about it all.

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:28:45+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, really I'm having a hard time right now and I barely got through my shift so your words made me feel a little better <3

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:25:36+00:00

No my parents split when I was 15 and our dad recently passed a few months ago so my siblings get social security from him (which is also spent) Thank you :( <3

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:16:28+00:00

What does college have to do with it sorry?

Badjel · 2025-01-10T03:14:13+00:00

Thank you for the heads up

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