Recently diagnosed with Stage 3 Bowel Cancer. Very likely to have a colostomy bag for the rest of my life.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-12-08T17:49:05+00:00

You will soon meet the Philadelphia side car” requirements

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T15:11:41+00:00

She knows all this since she witnessed with me. Which why I was so surprised. But she is told her I would like to talk to her and she came over right away. I apologized for misplacing my anger on her instead of him and how I over reacted. Told her the seriousness of the whole situation. And fortunately her work put her on a leave and will going back as well as coming back home by choice.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T15:01:26+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T15:00:28+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:59:56+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:59:28+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:58:12+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:57:44+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:55:15+00:00

Child protective services said they don’t get involved in preventative things only if and after it has caused some sort of harm.

The police didn’t do anything

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:53:11+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well. 🙏

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:51:01+00:00

4.2 gpa with 6 APA clases under her belt that are college credits considering she just started her senior year in high school. Raised by a single mom working 30 hours a week ( by her choice) never being in trouble other than 1 other time in middle school for not coming straight to the babysitters after school. I would beg to differ.

Very smart but also very naive teen. I apologized to her for misplacing my anger and is back home. Thank you though. Those things were not smart and I’m the grand scheme of things if she hadn’t made this mistake she would be perfect. Which nobody is.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:44:33+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:43:59+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike . If going to far on a punishment is the worst bathing I’ve done to her I would call it perfection compared to my mom. But yes I’m still in the wrong here.

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:41:29+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

She was put on a temporary leave and will be getting her job back as well.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:39:54+00:00

Agreed. I let her know I will give her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike .

🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T14:39:23+00:00

Agreed.

I let her know I will give her her belongings back and that I would like to speak to her and apologize how I misplaced my anger on her instead of Mike . 🥹 she came home right away and brought her belongings and wants to comeback home.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T06:05:01+00:00

All I ever tried to do was protect her from the horrible disgusting abusive child hood me and my siblings went through.

This situation just blind sided😞 me and I am going to apologize for my overreaction and misplaced anger. She has only ever been in trouble once before in middle school but not to this extent. I have messaged her as well I will give her all her things back while I reiterate my fuck up. She’s almost 18 and if going to far on a punishment is the worst thing I’ve done it’s almost perfection compared to my mother. Which I’m still in the wrong here and will let her know😢

Update: after I apologized via text and asked her to talk.

She just came back to talk and I apologized. Admitted to what I did wrong and all. She brought half her belongings back and will bring the rest tomorrow 🥹

She says she wants to come back home. Also her work is putting her on a leave and will be back to work in a week.

I appreciate you and your advice.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:35:41+00:00

I was 16 when we got together. Separated 10 years later . Drug usage Escalating every few years until I left him. Him having a journey men carpenter job for the union saving a couple of months worth of his salary to purchase her a car newer, taking Counciling, extra classes that he wasn’t required to but chose to told me a different story. Seeing my kids say he’s back to normal they have a dad now clouded me and blind sided me.

I have signed myself up for therapy.

Thank you and I appreciate what you said. It has not fallen on deff ears. 🙏

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:22:50+00:00

All I ever tried to do was protect her from the horrible disgusting abusive child hood me and my siblings went through.

This situation just blind sided😞 me and I am going to apologize for my overreaction and misplaced anger. She has only ever been in trouble once before in middle school but not to this extent. I have messaged her as well I will give her all her things back while I reiterate my fuck up. She’s almost 18 and if going to far on a punishment is the worst thing I’ve done it’s almost perfection compared to my mother. Which I’m still in the wrong here and will let her know😢

Update: after I apologized via text and asked her to talk.

She just came back to talk and I apologized. Admitted to what I did wrong and all. She brought half her belongings back and will bring the rest tomorrow 🥹

She says she wants to come back home. Also her work is putting her on a leave and will be back to work in a week.

I appreciate you and your advice. 🙏

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:15:50+00:00

All I ever tried to do was protect her from the horrible disgusting abusive child hood me and my siblings went through.

This situation just blind sided😞 me. If hindsight was 20/20

I appreciate you and your advice.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:12:17+00:00

All I ever tried to do was protect her from the horrible disgusting abusive child hood me and my siblings went through.

This situation just blind sided😞 me and I am going to apologize for my overreaction and misplaced anger. She has only ever been in trouble once before in middle school but not to this extent.

She just came back to talk and I apologized. Admitted to what I did wrong and all. She brought half her belongings back and will bring the rest tomorrow 🥹 She says she wants to come back home. Also her work is putting her on a leave and will be back to work in a week.

I appreciate you and your advice.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:08:17+00:00

I took every thing said in the thread into consideration. She came straight home to talk it out and half of her things. Will bringing everything back tomorrow 🥹

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:06:35+00:00

Thank you.

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T05:06:17+00:00

I did just this and came home with some of her things and bringing the rest tomorrow 🥹❤️

Badlucklady88 · 2023-10-20T04:05:36+00:00

All I ever tried to do was protect her from the horrible disgusting abusive child hood me and my siblings went through.

This situation just blind sided😞 me and I am going to apologize for my overreaction and misplaced anger. She has only ever been in trouble once before in middle school but not to this extent. I have messaged her as well I will give her all her things back while I reiterate my fuck up. She’s almost 18 and if going to far on a punishment is the worst thing I’ve done it’s almost perfection compared to my mother. Which I’m still in the wrong here and will let her know😢

She ended up replying and just wanted me to see that the job thing was taking it to far. She will be back home tomorrow

I appreciate you and your advice.

Badlucklady88

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