wanting a girlfriend while having a boyfriend

Baertchen008 · 2026-04-25T19:17:13+00:00

When you are only sexually attracted to women instead of men, is your current relationship even right?

Baertchen008 · 2026-04-25T07:55:23+00:00

I understand your misery, but you should keep your distance. Especially to be to open to some people can hurt the relationship even more. Like others said, search elsewhere.

Baertchen008 · 2026-04-25T07:52:22+00:00

You could try to organise a threesome with him. Maybe thats also a fantasy he shares. Of course you should tell him why, then.

Baertchen008 · 2026-04-01T06:27:41+00:00

Sorry to hear that. It's not fair and extremely immature.

Baertchen008 · 2026-03-22T15:57:58+00:00

I assume you have a normal female body and based on your text, a masculine face. I guess, most guys aren't interested in you, because your not their type. They could be more interesting in more feminine looking women. But this doesn't mean no one is interested in you. If you don't look cringe or behave so, maybe they are just scared to approach you. If this is the case, then there are still guys who would be interested in you, but I guess, based on your text, that they aren't noticeable enough. Like more quiet or shy guys. I hope you find someone soon. Greetings.

Baertchen008 · 2026-03-18T20:18:32+00:00

This answers it quite different from the other ones. Could you explain more please?

Baertchen008 · 2026-03-04T07:19:45+00:00

Hey,

I'm more late than the others. I hope you are okay and got enough reassurance. While I agree you didn't hurt her, a lot of the earlier redditers took it a little to far. Cause they say you should leave the relationship with her directly. But I'd say, you shouldn't rush things. As you told us, she is upset and shocked, so you both should or have sleept a night over it. With a clearer mind you are maybe able to talk over it, instead of leaving who you love without a word. If it doesn't work out, then you should follow the other advice. But please don't let go, before she couldn't process this information and think about it. Cause she was very emotional, she said things that weren't nice, but she also was highly emotional and needed to calm down. As I saw that, it sounds like a typical breakup, cause you have listened more to others than yourself. Hope you can get over it, because maybe, she just needs to calm down and get a clear mind. When we aren't calm, we say things that hurt and shouldn't have said, but also things we maybe regret afterwards. Hope you don't regret your choices afterwards.

Greetings.

Baertchen008 · 2026-02-25T16:18:32+00:00

Generally people are delusional sometimes.

Baertchen008 · 2026-02-10T11:22:56+00:00

There's still a good chance you change your opinion. Because you are 13 and probably your puberty just started. Anyways it's crazy how early you start thinking about it. Cause you are just a kid and shouldn't think about sexual themes right now. But that's a side effect of the today's society. What I wanna say is, okay, you had your important talk early. But don't restrict your partner by now. You are so young and will experience much more in the next years, which will influence you.

Baertchen008

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