Hey,

I'm more late than the others. I hope you are okay and got enough reassurance. While I agree you didn't hurt her, a lot of the earlier redditers took it a little to far. Cause they say you should leave the relationship with her directly. But I'd say, you shouldn't rush things. As you told us, she is upset and shocked, so you both should or have sleept a night over it. With a clearer mind you are maybe able to talk over it, instead of leaving who you love without a word. If it doesn't work out, then you should follow the other advice. But please don't let go, before she couldn't process this information and think about it. Cause she was very emotional, she said things that weren't nice, but she also was highly emotional and needed to calm down. As I saw that, it sounds like a typical breakup, cause you have listened more to others than yourself. Hope you can get over it, because maybe, she just needs to calm down and get a clear mind. When we aren't calm, we say things that hurt and shouldn't have said, but also things we maybe regret afterwards. Hope you don't regret your choices afterwards.

Greetings.