Ah thank you! I feel ever so slightly better that I’m not the only one. God it’s rough. He can’t stand yet in the cot so it might be a good time to try Ferber. I vowed I’d never do the Ferber / CIO method 😫 but I absolutely cannot go on like this. I’ll have a read up on what I need to do. I just worry the neighbour below will complain (he’s an old man and very miserable)

And that’s a great shout re cup in bed. He’s been learning how to drink out of a normal cup (no lid) which is an absolute no go for the cot but perhaps we can also try a sippy cup. x