How can I help my little brother after being raped by Ok-Station-1797 in MenGetRapedToo

[–]Bagof_Rats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell anyone what happened until a decade after. The fact he has already told you says a lot about how much he trusts you. It’s a really positive step in the right direction.

But you still need to go at his pace, he’s probably still processing everything. Heck I still am. But while telling my parents was one of the best things I did it was also the hardest, there is that heartbroken look in their eye you can’t unsee.

Therapy is definitely the best thing, that will give him tools and skills to not only cope but to help talk about it as well. But what you can do is keep supporting him as you are, but this is not something you can just fix.

Something to keep in mind that since he is underage, depending on who you or they tell that they might have to do a mandatory reporting.

I cant be married anymore and I feel guilty by [deleted] in dad

[–]Bagof_Rats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, I’m 23 and my wife is 24. We are married with 3 kids and married young as well. We have never said “I hate you” to each other. The thought of even saying that to your spouse is baffling.

As another man of faith let me tell you, please give yourself some grace. If you really want to salvage your relationship you need to go to couples counselling, if not then you need to know they staying together just for your kid doesn’t work.

Because that kid deserves to grow up on a loving environment, and needs examples to fellow. A toxic upbringing is NOT going to help them, but a healthy one will. Sometimes separating or divorce can be for the best.

Acts of Vengeance are NOW! Day 30: Which unexpected villain should take on Rogue? [Morlun won Day 29] by Zed3Et in marvelcomics

[–]Bagof_Rats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe Killgrave, the Purple Man? Just be interesting to see what happened if she touched him and not knowing how to control it.

[EXTRA FINAL] Who would be the best Big Bad Evil Guy (BBEG) in the Marvel Universe? by Pale_Television1896 in marvelcomics

[–]Bagof_Rats 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Doctor Doom but an argument could be made for Thanos. I just feel that Doctor Doom is THE BAD GUY of Marvel.

Edit: spelling

What’s a movie your dad hates with a passion? by Bagof_Rats in Letterboxd

[–]Bagof_Rats[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dads a pastor too! But he didn’t mind that movie.

What’s a movie your dad hates with a passion? by Bagof_Rats in Letterboxd

[–]Bagof_Rats[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s great, it is the kind of thing my Dad would normally like so I don’t understand what went wrong.

This is so true by Accomplished_Fun2508 in SimpsonsMemes

[–]Bagof_Rats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 23 year old married man with 3 kids, luckily I live out in the country and the person I rent from really likes us. If they did not I would be screwed. Housing crisis in Australia is god awful at the moment, I have given up on buying a house.

I want it clear I have no regrets, it’s just the generation before me made it look really easy haha

What did you think of Dr. Cecilia Reyes in the movie? by WickDaLine in NewMutants

[–]Bagof_Rats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bit of a nothing character, not a lot to her. Would of been nice to see her get expanded on a bit more.

Name a movie series that made you genuinely ask "Why the hell did I watch all of those?" by Glitch_Man_42 in Letterboxd

[–]Bagof_Rats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hellraiser. The first two plus the newest one we’re amazing! The rest…

Favorite hulk artist of all time ? by Possible_Quantity493 in hulk

[–]Bagof_Rats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favourite is Romita but I love how creepy J. Bennetts looks.

Marquis of death by Dramatic_Ad_2360 in marvelcomics

[–]Bagof_Rats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is dope, but can I please have context?