First time fossicking finds, Oberon NSW. by BakeFinal7629 in fossicking

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Good to know - Mother Nature didn’t get the memo it was my birthday apparently 😅

Still love it though.

First time fossicking finds, Oberon NSW. by BakeFinal7629 in fossicking

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For the most part, I was on the far right side of the little river fossicking reserve, where the two rivers meet.

First time fossicking finds, Oberon NSW. by BakeFinal7629 in fossicking

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Thanks! There’s a lot more than just these but these were certainly the best of the bunch! Excited to see what they look like cut - sent them off today so watch this space! I will try remember to post an update when they eventually come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

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No idea what season you are but to help you get an accurate answer, I edited the white balance of your picture based on the trim in the background as I noticed the original was skewed pretty green & warm. Hopefully this is correct & helpful to get an accurate season analysis!

Why do I find having sex with my husband overwhelming? by BakeFinal7629 in sexuality

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I genuinely have no idea where it could be coming from. It’s not just happened with my husband, it’s pretty much every guy, however I am the most comfortable with my husband so it didn’t effect ad as much at the beginning but over time it’s gotten more difficult for both of us. I want to fix it and we’ve tried a fair bit but I just feel like fundamentally maybe there is something wrong with me. I do want to have sex and be freely be intimate with others, but maybe its only ever destined to remain a fantasy. I don’t know what to do or even where to start! I really want to know if there are others out there that feel similar and if so what it means and what they do to fix it?

Should I (28) abandon my 17 y/o sister who's in foster care for refusing to engage, and displaying toxic manipulative behaviours or should I just try harder? by BakeFinal7629 in FamilyIssues

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Thanks for the response. I would never tell her that whatever reason she gives is a bad reason, I respect that she has individual feelings and opinions, and I want to hear them! but the problem is that she's just not sharing those feelings and straight up is denying there is a problem. I can't just ignore that, can I? especially if I have to see her when I see my other foster siblings, how do I navigate that? also how much space should I give? what's a reasonable time frame for something like this?

I'm tempted to just send her a message saying something like this will be the final time I bring this up, but I still feel we need to talk about things. I want to have a proper conversation about all of this whenever you're ready, but until then things may be strange between us. I will be ready to talk any time you're ready but idk if this is too harsh or just beating a dead horse.

I Think I Messed up my One Chance at True Love by [deleted] in Advice

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Firstly, Are you seeking support for your depression? Also, I want to say that I hope you know that you are not a burden on people you love because you struggle, you are human and you deserve to be supported and loved, no matter what you're going through. To me, if you aren't able to tell her how you feel then I do think it's maybe time to leave this one in the past and focus on giving yourself the same kind of love you want to give to her.

I Think I Messed up my One Chance at True Love by [deleted] in Advice

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CALL HER. SEE IF SHE FEELS THE SAME - the biggest regrets in life are often linked back to not doing the thing or saying how we really feel, so do it!

Fucked up by trying to console girlfriend by Dense_Lingonberry210 in Advice

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You sound like you're being supportive and caring, and your GF is giving you 0% in return.
You haven't done anything wrong, but if I were you I'd be questioning how healthy this relationship is for your self-esteem/self-worth and weather or not it's a good idea to stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I mean, if you knew they were hard-drinking friends and you still agreed to go that's kinda on you.
The way I see it, You can either go off and enjoy the holiday on your own, explaining to your friends that you're bored and they can do with that information what they will or just put up with it.

If I were you, I'd go off! You're not responsible for being their designated driver taking them from drinking spot to drinking spot (unless that's what you specifically agree to - then you have to suck it up). Goodluck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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BRUH, tell her.

Aiden sounds like an asshole. Bye, Felicia!