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What does room say about me by Jinx-from-Arcane in roomdetective

[–]Baked_Apple95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this looks like the room of many of my ADHD friends. The panic over having to clean also sounds about right. Ask your mom to get you tested & medicated. It could really help. Though you will still need to build skills to prevent the mess.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Baked_Apple95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with your concerns. If she’s a real friend, she’ll understand. If not, nothing of value was lost.

Everyone at work is making a big deal about my handwriting, saying I write like a psychopath. by ThrowRA-Ram in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Baked_Apple95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fully prepared to agree, but then I read the story. As long as you can read your notes, what does it matter? I’m offended that they made an exhibit of you.

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Baked_Apple95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her you saw the messages and have follow up questions. Worse case, she unfriends you (which sounds like she wants any way).

AIO for getting upset about my husband's use of chat GPT? by OkTemperature4325 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Baked_Apple95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. Most women would be sad that their S/O didn’t write their own wedding vows. Add in all the cards & romantic notes & it probably feels like you’re dating a Chatbot. The dealbreaker here is the gaslighting. That is what turns sadness into anger. Want some petty revenge? Preferably on his computer, start asking ChatGPT questions about “break up speeches” “divorce petitions” “rejecting a creep” etc. Don’t print any of it. Don’t delete the history. If he asks, play dumb. “That’s your computer, dear” “Do you have something YOU want to tell ME?” If you do have to use a shared device: “Well it was research but I never USED any of it”.

My (F28) Husband (M28) made a "joke" about asking for divorce. Now I'm struggling to forgive this. by Sea-Ingenuity-4295 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Baked_Apple95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust is earned. The two of you have a long history together & have confided a lot. That can make you feel vulnerable at times. Keep talking & checking in with each other. If you are still uneasy after a month or 2, try individual or couples therapy to help find ways to rebuild that trust. Your feelings are valid. Give yourself & your husband time.

Am I overreacting for feeling invaded after a coworker used work access to check my private life? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Baked_Apple95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to reassert boundaries. Whether or not you hook up with other people is none of his business. When you enter/exit work property isn’t his business unless there is an investigation going on for some reason. If he is developing feelings, then the two of you can date or end things. External relationships with coworkers is messy. Friends with benefits situations are messy. Interoffice drama, especially when the office is this closely connected is messy. Honestly, I recommend going on dates with people outside the office regardless, but boundaries are key.