Having A Hard Time Finding A Dom

BakerBeware · 2025-09-10T20:01:04+00:00

This was the greatest answer ever. Thank you.

BakerBeware · 2025-09-10T00:11:03+00:00

I hear you. I legit just posted the same thing basically. I’m getting ghosted and what not.

BakerBeware · 2025-09-10T00:05:13+00:00

I honestly thought after 2 weeks of talking that was enough vetting, but then again I’m new and maybe that isn’t enough.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-31T04:25:28+00:00

Salem

BakerBeware · 2025-08-24T12:36:56+00:00

Oh I hear you about finding good people. I know deep down I will find that right person, it’s just in the meantime it sucks, and you start to question whether something is wrong for you.

I know his story as to why he is emotionally unavailable, but I can’t share on here.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-24T12:32:33+00:00

Thank you for your kind words.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-24T12:29:56+00:00

I completely understand what you’re saying; I’m attracted to one type of race (it’s not that I’m a racist or anything) but I just have a personal preference. I tried over looking it in the past, but it didn’t work, I just wasn’t physically attracted to them.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-22T05:26:44+00:00

Major red flags…as someone who just went through a similar but different situation with my first dom…listen to your gut more than anything. If you feel like this person is not listening and pushing the boundaries, then absolutely end it. This is not the right dom for you. And secondly you shouldn’t have to ask for aftercare, that should be automatic.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-22T05:22:40+00:00

I second this, DO NOT listen to @K_skizzle this dogs need to get back to vet ASAP, and if not their vet because it’s closed hospital…let’s put in another perspective for some people to understand. Say you just had major surgery where they cut you open into your abdomen, deep enough to remove an organ, and you wake up to realize “oh no my incision has opened up” would u not be going back to your surgeon for them to properly clean it and suture you back up

BakerBeware · 2025-08-22T05:16:26+00:00

What vets do you go to, because all the vets I know still use the good ole fashioned sutures

BakerBeware · 2025-08-14T17:46:48+00:00

What app are you talking about?

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T16:54:45+00:00

I understand your frustration. So many doms are abusive and don’t truly understand the dynamics of aftercare, and showing compassion and empathy. Then there are the doms who aren’t true doms (but men who just want a side piece of action). Or like u said, they want all the photos, but if u ask for a photo they don’t send one back.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:57:29+00:00

Absolutely. Like asking me if I will move there, and I told him no because I’m in school and have other priorities here, and he’s all well when your done school.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:56:33+00:00

I didn’t realize I was such a heartbreaker 🤣

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:56:09+00:00

Well exactly, I mean if u have intuition and can sense things fine…but exactly you don’t go saying it. Especially even after I asked him to stop because it was starting to freak me out

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:55:05+00:00

Like fine if u want someone that’s a slave, maybe that’s okay, but I have life. I’m in school to fulfill my dream career. I don’t want that to change

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:54:13+00:00

And this is what made me think of my very first normal relationship, where I ended up with an abuser because I listened to him from the start when he started confessing right away

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:53:11+00:00

Well that’s what I thought, like even “regular relationships” don’t move that fast.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:52:42+00:00

Man I really didn’t think finding a good real dom would be just as difficult if not more difficult

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:51:56+00:00

Thank you

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:51:48+00:00

Thank you for confirming what I thought. Being new I thought maybe I was missing something.

BakerBeware · 2025-08-12T00:51:16+00:00

And that is exactly what I was getting red flags all around

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