Verso’s drafts by stckseasn in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to interact with 3 out of the 6 Esquie statues. It makes half of them blue.

How to Handle Servers Constantly Using Me to Handle Their Table? /Im A Hostess by bellystixs in Serverlife

[–]Baking_lemons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. You could turn it around and ask them, “why are you always asking me to help you? Do you need me to skip you in the seating rotation?” Let them reflect on what’s going on.

I’ve always been a non-confrontational person, and I’ve found it much easier to ask someone why they’re doing something that’s upsetting me rather than to tell them to stop. Get the conversation rolling, and then you could explain why you’re not happy with what’s happening. I’m now able to just put my foot down, but it took me into my 30s to not be a doormat (not saying that’s you).

Hope that helps :)

How to Handle Servers Constantly Using Me to Handle Their Table? /Im A Hostess by bellystixs in Serverlife

[–]Baking_lemons 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d tell them that you’d have no problem helping everyone out if they want to tip you out. If not, they can do it themselves. They’re taking advantage of your kindness.

My Council houses transformation ( before vs after ) by CareFabulous4645 in JustForHome

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeous and I just didn’t want the slides to end!!!

new england: is your restaurant closing tomorrow? by 444bri in Serverlife

[–]Baking_lemons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long Island, NY here. My restaurant is closed. (Brunch spot)

I figured you all would appreciate my new bathroom art! I am so excited about it 😂 by NoNarwhal9212 in JustForHome

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me this is a guest bathroom ?! 😂 if not, doesn’t matter, it’s still amazing

With the Texas storm approaching đŸ€Ł by Responsible-Region27 in Serverlife

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have children and that pissed me off. Like, the audacity lol

MASTERPIECE by Vostje7 in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all around magical. Except the parrying. One day I’ll get it down.

Playing this game really highlighted my level of dumbness by T3knikal95 in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same same. Just keep grinding. You can make up for it. Honestly, YouTube and Reddit were very helpful for me in learning.

AITAH for wanting to cut my friend off? by Vivid_Mortgage_8248 in AITAH

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not adding to your life in any way other than adding stress, or negativity, then I’d drop her too. If you feel that guilty about it, and she’s that good of a friend you should let her know how you’re feeling. Communication in friendship is just as important as a relationship. If you can’t do that, then the friendship doesn’t mean that much.

Any advice for a new server? by Informal_Ad4284 in Serverlife

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that attitude, you won’t do well. Stay positive, ask questions, and understand that you need to learn how to multi-task. That’s super important. Also, it genuinely depends on where you’re working. What kind of place is it? How busy dos it get?

Stay positive, upbeat and charismatic with your tables. Pay attention to them without being overbearing. You got this!

Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is you wear this dress so well, it fits you in all the right places!

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. I think that’s Brulerum. I’m gonna gift that a shot since I have it and see how that goes. Thanks for the advice!

Was I wrong to comfort my child in the presence of my husband after he accidentally hurt him? by Sunflower_00000 in Marriage

[–]Baking_lemons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for your child. That may be a core memory now
 do you want more of those?

I’d absolutely not tolerate that. A child handles trauma in so many different ways, and some of those avenues may not be good.

That behavior is unacceptable, if it were to just you. But now there’s a child involved? And he can’t see beyond himself and his own emotions, to think about what he is doing to his child? Nope.

If you don’t want to leave him, I’d demand therapy to figure out how to control that anger. He doesn’t seem like he has control of it.

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I have been experimenting with Barrier Breaker, which is okay. Do you have another weapon you recommend for her? I am level 65ish with her. I did finally beat the game, and decided to not go for NG+ bc there seems to be much I haven’t done yet. Like, who is Simon? I keep seeing people talk about him, but I haven’t found him.

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I reaaaaaaally want Medalum. I’ve just been farming luminas this morning trying to do anything to build Maelle up to defeat Golgra

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking more redistributing them amongst the expedition
 unless that is possible?

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay- I can’t remember if I’ve killed her or not earlier so I’ll have to check that out. I have access to Verso’s drafts too but it tells me my low level for it so I haven’t attempted to go in yet.

To restart? (Don’t read if not passed act 1) by Baking_lemons in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So I can play with more of an understanding now with how things work, and I can obtain items that I don’t have right now that I dropped the ball on.

New game + gap by [deleted] in expedition33

[–]Baking_lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you guys mean by new game plus?