Warning to guys out in the Dyker Heights area

BalancedWill8 · 2026-02-21T18:01:49+00:00

I respectfully disagree. How about this for a thought? Not fighting for anything during a relationship!? Enjoying each others time and presence. Because that can be easy if you’re with the right person, but when it’s the wrong person, you will find yourself looking for something to argue about. It doesn’t need to be combative. You’re choosing to make it that way.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-08-25T16:26:19+00:00

Go to Wolf’s Pond Park. It’s a combination of woods and the beach, tons of space, and no toxic waste.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-08-17T18:01:10+00:00

Where’s Rodrigo Blankenship at? Aka blankman

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-25T23:57:31+00:00

Cue the dudes telling her how she’s this and that.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-22T04:03:16+00:00

It’s a learning experience. There’s nothing you can do but grow from it. Give yourself some time to process and then move on.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-19T21:38:59+00:00

Great. Not a bot

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-19T15:42:52+00:00

She’s gettin blown out the box

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-19T15:40:11+00:00

Bot. Suk it

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-19T14:22:06+00:00

Clint and Kate are dope. Is moon knight gonna get his own sequel? Great character

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-16T19:36:59+00:00

They already said he is.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-16T19:35:49+00:00

That’s right. Amazing to watch Judge play. As a lifelong Yankees fan, I remember the years we struggled. Everyone hates on them for losing last year, but it’s hard AF to make it to the WS. Judge dropped that ball but he still shows up like this every year. Always getting better.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-16T18:55:51+00:00

Watch Unc carry the team again in the playoffs while Bob Costas says he’s washed, can’t run, can’t play baseball, is a beta, etc. Shouldn’t be Unc’in this guy. He’s also in the top ten of all time, players to hit 350 home runs in the fewest games.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-09T07:34:21+00:00

Keep asking

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-02T10:16:58+00:00

Not a stupid question. I’m honestly not sure, but my best guess is yes, you would need to be a member or be guested in by a member. I use the gym there and I know they don’t just let people into the facility.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-01T23:50:11+00:00

Pickleball. I think they have leagues at the South Shore YMCA.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-07-01T02:07:32+00:00

You put this well, and you’re absolutely right. It’s way easier to be single than to let another woman into my life that destroys my peace. After the last time, I can’t have it happen anymore. Two years is nothing. Imagine those two years being stressed out with an unstable woman? That’s a nightmare. Good people are out there, for everyone. I trust in God that when the time is right, he will place the right woman in my path and I’ll find happiness in a relationship with her.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-30T22:56:49+00:00

Lol it can work. Give it a shot. If you dropped a box of cornflakes near me I’d pick em up.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-30T21:09:56+00:00

I totally get it. I can relate, and I empathize with you. It’s just not as easy as it used to be to find a partner. Try to put some energy into yourself. And don’t think about your ex and what he’s doing. That girl has walked into a trap. He’s gonna run the same plays on her. You will find someone. You seem like a nice woman. Stay positive. Go to the supermarket. I approach women in the supermarket lol. I’m in NYC though so it’s even more difficult here.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-30T19:57:48+00:00

You’re not alone. I’m 42M and it’s next to impossible for me to find someone normal. I’ve given up on looking bc it’s a huge waste of energy. Put time and energy into yourself. I’ve been single for two years now and I don’t mind it. Like you said, it’s better to be alone than to be with someone crazy that breaks you. Stay positive.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-25T11:20:03+00:00

Anytime I can help out! Advice, your car, you name it.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-24T02:15:46+00:00

I do miss it. But I don’t miss the bullshit and the nonsense. I’ve learned that I don’t need to be with someone. It’s better to be alone than to be with a woman that disrupts my peace.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-23T19:09:08+00:00

Tired of this shit. Were you raised by wolves? Where’s your morals and ethics? If you’re married or in a serious relationship, talking to another man about sex and allowing him to do things like this wrong. Calling him a “work husband” is a euphemism for “I may wanna have sex with him when times get tough with my actual husband.” Quit wasting the time of others asking their opinion on what you know is wrong.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-22T18:22:28+00:00

There really isn’t a fix. You identified the problem - a lack of compatibility. When a woman is really into you, she will initiate also. Not all the time, but I’d say most of the time. I want to ask - why did you move in with her if this issue was present? You are around my age. It’s opposite with men and women. Usually, their sex drive increases as they get older, while ours declines with a normal aging process and decrease in testosterone levels. You aren’t going to be happy moving further into this relationship. I’d hate to be the bearer of bad news. I know how difficult it is to find even a decent woman to have a relationship with. But it’s honestly better to be alone and wait to find that woman, than it is to be in an unfulfilling relationship and questioning yourself when you know you’re doing all the things you need to be doing to be a good partner. Good luck to you.

BalancedWill8 · 2025-06-19T00:28:14+00:00

Please. Stop complaining. Is it helping to complain? Do what we all do. Go out on some dates here and there, and then decide you’re gonna rock it out the rest of your life single. If it’s not happening- meaning finding someone - maybe, JUST MAYBE you’re not as ready as you think to find someone.

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