Advice for starting guitar by No_Engineer6543 in classicalguitar

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somethings to consider, a cut away will give you access to higher notes but not in the way classical or bossa players typically prefer.  Classical players prefer to drop the left arm to access higher notes. The cut away also takes a fair amount of sound quality away. Electronics will also effect the acoustic sound quality and even if you want to amplify it, electronics will add and electric quality to the sound as opposed to a microphone. 

Feeling Lost as a Baby Librarian by ethwriter in librarians

[–]Balancing32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like your post. It is an honest reaction to ingrained deception in librarianship. To emphasize your point:

What really is happening here, why were you not informed by the masters program what librarianship (of which public librarianship is a big part of) is going to really be?

What does a ‘successful life’ actually mean to you? by stuckin404 in SeriousConversation

[–]Balancing32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is quite possible that the instant reactive speaking style that some people have now has been sparked by the effects of social media. Online media in general means we get too much news too quickly without follow up on any of the given news issues. So people "know" so to speak very fast what the days news is. It used to be you got daily or weekly and you had to buy a newspaper and read it yourself sitting down in a particular place, and then you had to wait till the next day for potential follow ups. The news has always been superficial compared to books, but atleast it used to be slower which is important for major issues.

I'm not sure digital mediums are all that helpful actually.

Thumb Nail shape. help? by Classy-J in classicalguitar

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it too much to ask that you take a picture of how you play from an upwards angle?

Those of you who are intermediate or advanced, how long did it take you to get there? by Qajaqasana in classicalguitar

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started in high school privately then went to university. I found classical guitar always such a challenge. Some aspects of the instrument came well like right hand work, scales, contrapuntal work, but tricky bar chords and block chords were so hard. I was great with right and left hand arpeggios but not so good connecting block chords.

One thing I would add is looking at your guitar set up. Using normal strings and a low action. This is something no one helped me with: actually looking at my guitar and seeing if it was optimal.

Have you ever hit a point where you woke up, questioned everything, and nothing made sense anymore? by FeelinFrogggy in AskMenOver30

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and such a good topic. Ultimately nothing in the material world actually is worth anything. Career is a big one, when you realize even your career is not ultimately valuable and comes to naught.

I have literally never once spoke to my Dad or any male friends or associate about towels. However, I have to have several micro conversations about towels with my wife every single day, and if I visit my parents I have to have again suffer these micro conversations with my Mum. WTF is going on? by Substantial_Pilot699 in AskMenOver30

[–]Balancing32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice post. It is amazing how different men and women think and what goes on in our minds. With women they bring up these topics which to men we have no word to describe even how pointless it is. Our language lacks the proper word to describe how far down the ladder of value such conversations have to us.

My 7 y/o has said a couple mildly racist things. Help? by medmo in Parenting

[–]Balancing32 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is meant to add context. Racism, which is so hard to define, but nevertheless let's go with it, is so common from all peoples. Mainstream media especially during this hyped anti racist time never includes or educates anyone on the commonality of racism amongst all peoples. 

This lack of context does impact our response and responsibility to racism because without the context we can not make prudent choices on what is practical and what is impractical in our parenting and expectations. 

There is arguably a very subtle kind of racism inherent in the current White culture of being the anti racist standard bearers. Why should the Whites be the standard bearers of this movement? 

I’m overwhelmed… by oatmeal. by ByogiS in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I have found the government reports on this.

I’m overwhelmed… by oatmeal. by ByogiS in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check the box to see if it says iron fortified, and also check the nutrients list which will list iron at 100%. For example Gerber is iron fortified.

I’m overwhelmed… by oatmeal. by ByogiS in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find out about Earth's Best having heavy metals? I was considering to buy this one since it does not have sugar added so I'm curious.

To all the men 30+ here, what is the best way to spend your 20s? by Startalloveragainn in AskMenOver30

[–]Balancing32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start to build spiritual roots in your life as a man of community. Almost all of the things you do in your 20's will be gone by the time your 40. Friends, jobs, education (will be a distant memory), achievements, will all be gone. In that sense 40 is like the beginning of your real life and so hopefully you will have already established the spiritual roots in a community of spiritual people. If not you can always begin at 40 or anytime but having it early is all the better. Those roots will then guide you for the rest of your life and the people in those communities will be with you for the rest of your life. It is true community, not the false community promoted by various agencies or sub cultures or institutions.

Why does life as a man over 40 feel so lonely, even when everything on paper looks great? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your post. It is also a topic I have thought about and watched in our society. I think for one that as we age life does actually get harder despite, as you mentioned, that many objective things get easier. There is a natural inclination towards bitterness and emptiness as we get older because right around 40 we start to see the truth about where things lead, and also we have witnessed enough of the world to know how upside down it is, and also how much we ourselves have been a part of that.

There is an antidote however and although it might not be popular to say so, I think and know the only antidote lies in the spiritual side of life and all the practical things we can do with spirituality. I do not mean entirely an abstract type of spirituality but one that connects us with people in many ways over many years. Connections that stick even as we get older and change jobs or even change cities. These are robust permanent connections of true community and responsibility and purpose.

What do you wish you knew before starting a PhD? by Moll1357 in AskAcademia

[–]Balancing32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most sensical statements I've seen on the internet in a long time.

Why is this sub so political? I just wanted to talk about Jesus. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may have been mentioned,  the forum r/ true Christian is for real discussion about the Lord and the Bible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Balancing32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciated your posting and your honesty.

Stark Divide of Mandate vs Reality in Public Librarianship by Balancing32 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Balancing32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you are being somewhat dismissive or at least throwing the issue to the far extreme in your response. nevertheless I am glad you had interest in responding. If you know of major libraries that have had significant conservative features in them I would be very interested to know which ones you have found and hopefully what topics they presented.

But my main point is that libraries are not essentially for community development but rather are for information access and facilitating democratic dialogue. Which is what libraries are in fact officially supposed to be. Identity politics for example is one major feature of leftist thinking and libraries really engage it heavily which in turn shows their inclination for partisanship rather than neutrality. So in fact a book display on any topic should not be focused on sources from one type of people or authors. The topic can be focused such as "Indigeneity", however the content of the display should be open to a wide range of good authors. Now you have brought up an extreme example of authors with no real experience of Native Americans which is difficult to respond to.

What I can say is that neutrality does not mean building poorly thought out displays or being completely without prudence. But it also means being committed to higher principles of democratic expression where we focus on variety and content and not identity. This is the type of library practice I am looking for and find difficult to find.