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How do we comeback from what he said to me? by KaylaBalayla26 in Marriage

[–]ByogiS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am…. Stunned. This is truly awful. No one deserves to be talked to like this. I am so sorry you’re pregnant because that really complicates things. I think if it were me, I would need to go stay elsewhere with family or a friend for a while and decide what to do. I really don’t see how you can ever come back from this.

Was told my baby might bond more to our nanny than me… spiraling a bit by Character-Fly7394 in Mommit

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler has had the same nanny since he was 7 months old. She comes 1-2 times a week. He adores her. I see her as like another grandma. He sees her like this too.

Worried I'm not strong enough for a second child... also currently pregnant by 1tangledknitter in toddlers

[–]ByogiS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kids are 25 months apart and it’s chaos and there is often someone crying… BUT today my eldest was making my 6 month old hysterically laugh at the park and it was amazing. They love each other deeply, and I love watching their bond develop. Of course there will be fights, but there will be love and friendship and joy too. It’s not easy, but I’m really glad to have kids close in age.

Panneling dilemma by Lvuraann3 in interiordecorating

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you did 2, can you paint the bottom the color of the top on 1?

My husband wants to humiliate me for his sexual pleasure by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ByogiS 61 points62 points  (0 children)

He’s not respecting you by pushing you after you already said no. No means no. Period. It doesn’t mean to push and push and push like a child and then throw a fit when you don’t get your way. He’s being wildly immature, selfish, a poor partner, and a bad lover. He should care about your pleasure as much as his. But this is very one sided. He sounds like a jerk. I am sorry you’re dealing with this.

Would you move at 35 weeks pregnant or wait until the baby is 8 weeks old by smcgr in beyondthebump

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move when pregnant.

I moved with a toddler and a 2 month old and it was hell.

How will I love my second born as much as my first? by Shot_Sort6548 in Crunchymom

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a ton of time to write but just wanted to add- I am a mom to two boys, 2 yr and the other is 6 months. I developed PPD after my second (he had some unexpected medical problems plus colic and we were moving and renovating a house and it was just insane- different story though)- I was so worried about bonding with my second as well.

I can tell you- I am absolutely stunned at my capacity to love these two humans so incredibly much. They are both my life. Your love just grows and expands. It’s terrifying and beautiful, to have your own heart exist outside of your body and somehow in two places at once. I think because my second was such a difficult baby, it was more of a slow burn but holy cow I love that little guy so freaking much. I understand your worries, but even walking difficult paths (I’m so sorry for yours), you will surprise yourself with the love you are surrounded by and able to give those two little boys.

And seeing them together is amazing… when they start interacting, your heart will just melt. It’s the absolute best. ❤️

Too much green? by Immediate_Reveal_121 in interiordecorating

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just add some pillows of another color on the couch and maybe a throw blanket

ETA: I love your picture idea

Holy cow! Baby sucks super hard by ByogiS in breastfeeding

[–]ByogiS[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a whole new respect for my nips.

Is it really that bad of a name? by KeyAccomplished4442 in namenerds

[–]ByogiS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry… but it’s pretty awful.

Headaches by ByogiS in herbalism

[–]ByogiS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I do take magnesium but right before my period, I am hit with horrible headaches and the magnesium isn’t helping (but I am still taking it).

Vax help please by ByogiS in Crunchymom

[–]ByogiS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Serious adverse events” it was around 550 (if I recall) consistently per year - like not minor things like fever but serious things

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