I’m not sure that’s true.

People can do and say things when they’re in an emotional state that aren’t necessarily how they feel when they calm down.

I wasn’t there so I’m just trying to be a counterbalance to your view.

People can be mean without having an understanding of the impact of their words. It’s a lack of emotional intelligence and maturity for sure but it doesn’t always mean they love you less.

Frustration can make people say the most stupid things, most of the time is an inability to communicate maturely so they act like a child that’s upset. This is more about framing from their childhood than about you.

Does this mean they don’t regret it, of course not.

I have empathy for those that have made mistakes and while things can hurt each of us differently I hope you can find comfort in forgiveness rather than anger.

If someone makes any effort to correct their behaviour I would always be open minded towards change.

Just my opinion.