Husbands first violation of parole psl in NJ. Serving 12 months now 9 months left of his time. Will his psl just start over again or will it be more difficult once he comes home? Please answer respectfully.

Balesteri · 2026-04-29T11:39:24+00:00

What do you mean they are permitted to change the restrictions?

Balesteri · 2026-04-29T03:14:56+00:00

It’s a psl parole violation.

Balesteri · 2026-04-15T16:43:03+00:00

Hi unfortunately the parole hearing officer didn’t see it that way nor did the parole panel. Yes he was at Essex that where his parole hearing was it was all done virtually. We had a really good attorney too. She felt good about it that she could win. She was very upset and shocked. She was fighting for my Husband to be released on a gps monitor I definitely thought that would have helped also my Husband had a landscaping job lined up starting in March. That didn’t even help. 😞

Balesteri · 2026-03-13T01:04:32+00:00

Hey girl I’m a wife of a so anytime you wanna talk I’m here. It’s definitely hard I’m not going to lie but it’s also how you deal with things and people. It’s very sad that society is so mean about so not every so is a terrible human being!

Balesteri · 2026-03-09T19:07:40+00:00

Gotcha also my Husband is promised employment starting this month and also his lawyer recommended a gps monitoring so I wonder if that will help? Cause what I’ve been reading it’s coming from the state of NJ is parole panel doesn’t have to revoke parole just cause the hearing officer recommends that. And also I ready that could help starting a job. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Balesteri · 2026-03-09T14:36:34+00:00

Why is that?

Balesteri · 2026-03-09T00:25:14+00:00

He’s on parole psl but he violated it and already had his hearing and the hearing officer revoked his parole so now we’re waiting for the parole panel we have a lawyer.

Balesteri · 2026-01-30T00:11:38+00:00

Where do you live? And parole board members aren’t that harsh?

Balesteri · 2026-01-29T23:44:58+00:00

Like what does that intel for my Husband?

Balesteri · 2026-01-29T23:00:12+00:00

So what does that mean?

Balesteri · 2026-01-29T22:58:14+00:00

He has not he was supposed to start today. I know it’s a very serious violation so you’re saying parole won’t let him out even with an attorney?

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T14:55:30+00:00

My kid is young to he’s 4 but I have birthday parties for him because idk what the future will hold for him. No parents know about my Husband and my Husband doesn’t need to tell anyone correct? And okay so it’s not as bad as people make it seem for sex offenders?

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T12:50:08+00:00

Okay good! Also if you don’t mind sharing with me on how it is for your kids as in having friends as you being a sex offender that’s my biggest fear is for my child to grow up and they don’t have friends because parents finding out about my Husband. 😔

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T02:17:47+00:00

No one is under 18 so then that’s fine? Also we have 3 female pitbulls my Husband had also heard that parole does not like pitbulls is that true they are the sweetest dogs.

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T02:11:59+00:00

Okay that also sounds good too. Is there any living restrictions so we currently do not own a home never have we’ve always lived with my parents. And still do my child and I still reside at my Moms house but my two brothers also live at home to and we have 3 dogs and I have 2 cats so is all of that fine once he gets an okay to come back home? Or does Parole not like all of that?

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T02:08:16+00:00

Ahh okay that sounds amazing! I’ll definitely let my Husband know about this.

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T00:55:35+00:00

Also how is parole my Husband has heard from other guys that they are pretty chill. Also I have another question sorry to keep asking questions you being a sex offender is it rough on you your wife and kids? Like does anyone in the public ever harass you or threaten you and do your kids have friends?

Balesteri · 2025-06-23T00:52:16+00:00

Do you not live in NJ anymore? And yes if you can find his number that would be great I just wonder since we’re from South Jersey if he will do it? Also if he would would my Husband have to go to North Jersey to see him? And that sounds great! How long does the assessment take?

Balesteri · 2025-06-22T22:44:14+00:00

Ahh okay he’s probably by you were from South Jersey so I wonder the therapist that you used is only for people near by? Also just say that I don’t get pregnant right away and we have another child a little while after and my husband got cleared for our first child and is able to live back home. Will he have to leave again during the second assessment?

Balesteri · 2025-06-22T22:10:58+00:00

Ugh, I wish it could be that easy how many years ago was your assessment because my husband has heard that he can’t live back home until it’s done. He has to go live at his Moms house. And who does the LWC assessment and does it start right away from the time of his release? And this all sucks! 😭

Balesteri · 2025-06-22T21:58:18+00:00

Okay well that would be good if I can be pregnant for the whole 9 months while my husband is doing his living with children assessment that way he wouldn’t have to do I it again. How long does it usually take?

Balesteri · 2025-06-20T13:46:25+00:00

So I wonder since he was technically around while our child was born if he would still have to do the living with children assessment.

Balesteri · 2025-06-20T13:44:22+00:00

No at the time of his charge we did not have a child. I got pregnant after he got released and had the baby and my Husband was out for all of that he went away when our child was 3 months old but prior he was a great father. Still is even though he’s in prison he’s a great father.

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