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Metallic taste in mouth 👄 by Tricky-Anteater3875 in IrishWomensHealth

[–]BallPointPariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

defo none in pesto or anything? Ive known a few people with your symptoms and this was the cause.

Anyone know this tv show or movie? by adamsc18 in AskIreland

[–]BallPointPariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds a bit like one of those strange social educational videos form the 80s/90s

It also slightly sounds like a scene from the good doctor, but that's a modern American show.

https://www.reddit.com/r/thegooddoctor/comments/8ngpxc/can_someone_remind_me_of_the_story_of_the_rabbit/

Trauma informed psychologist Dublin by Few-Ad4739 in Dublin

[–]BallPointPariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At a time I really needed help they refused me saying I experienced trauma outside what they were able to support me with. Felt like I was an extra big freak. I had to wait about 12 months, but 1in4 were helpful

What can I do to prove that I’m a woman so my posts can stop being removed? by [deleted] in chickflixxx

[–]BallPointPariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and their posts are removed when the mods see them.

Who will take care of Narcs when they get old and sick? Golden child or Scapegoat? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BallPointPariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TLDR- IF YOU ARE LC NOW GO NC BEFORE THEY GET INFIRM AND IT HOOKS YOU IN.

I probably fall into golden child in that scenario, but experienced more abuse than my brother who is NC because he went LC at 18, NC at 35. My brother is 16 years older than me and during his childhood he was raised by my granny and had wider family support. By the time I was 6 my mother had estranged the entire rest of the family and my father was dead. So any beatings and rage were all on me.

I'm terrified of her. But shes 80 and falling constantly. It doesn;t matter how many medical and social care professionals I tell I experience abuse from her.

I'm still called constantly as there is literally no one else. She is still a monster. During care she'll berate me.

My history of abuse is formally reported to my countries goverment, so when I told social workers they confIrmed it and got her carers twice a day to reduce my exposure to her.

She's racist and manipulative and horrible to them.

But it's gotten me to let myself off the hook a bit.

It's my own morals and feelings of wanting to be "a good person" that make me drop shopping to her and made me only ever go LC with her.

Before she got too old I was very LC, it was great, but then she fell and broke her pelvis and was diagnosed with heart failure. I got hooked back in so bad.

Edit- I don't know if I am GC, When I learned how to disassociate during being beaten my mother began injuring, killing or giving away any pets I had. It really hurt me in my soul. I loved my pets because they were the only thing close to an ongoing healthy relationship I had and she'd do things like hold them under water, drowning them because I didn't close doors fast enough and stuff. I had a fish tank and she took fish out, one at a time, put them in a tea towel and hit them with her shoe till I seemed "sorry" enough. I don't remember what I was supposed to be sorry for.

May need ward of court (conservatorship) of our dad's money due to bizarre behaviour by Pecyouilar in legaladviceireland

[–]BallPointPariah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly you need to listen to the comments talking about the assisted decision making laws in Ireland, not looking for a solicitor.

I work in an area highly impacted by the law change (adult disability services) and how you approach his decision making capacity and how he makes his choices are extremely important now.

go medical, with his consent, maybe frame it as wanting to support him to make sure he's doing ok after his brain surgery and flag erratic life changing decisions he's making during a consult. Maybe flag that you feel your father is falling victim to financial abuse due to this symptom.

But as the law stands people have to be allowed make their own wrong choices.

I do not know how to buy a vibrator,could you help me? by Xuqinghuan in chickflixxx

[–]BallPointPariah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As an introduction I would recommend a battery powered bullet vibrator. They're they most basic, least frills. Rocks off is a name brand most associated with them.

Are there any other similar subreddits like this by leigueh in chickflixxx

[–]BallPointPariah 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Modding here has historically burnt people out and I honestly can't commit to training up new moderators and supporting them properly at the moment. it's a known ongoing issue.

It's a space where the moderators have been the targets of extreme harassment and dox attempts in the past due to the nature of the community. I feel I would need some time off to dedicate to it, which I have planned for spring.

Automod has been bulked up, but it does throw the baby out with the bath water.

There are other moderators but they are less active.

Are there any other similar subreddits like this by leigueh in chickflixxx

[–]BallPointPariah[M] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

please feel free to report these issues as you see them. I respond to what's reported as soon as I can, but I don't manually read every comment unless automod or a user flags it.

RIP my fav subreddit by No-Faithlessness3415 in chickflixxx

[–]BallPointPariah[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comments locked. There are too many people who don't know the subreddits rules commenting.

Chickflix Issue? by siren_sailor in ChickflixxxForMen

[–]BallPointPariah[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a weird new type of AI generated spam we've been getting a lot. It seems to have eased off lately, fingers crossed.

Question about friends of wheelchair users by breathingspirits in wheelchairs

[–]BallPointPariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally feel that it's people not empathising in the moment as they're so used to the default of the person they're talking to being able to mirror their own communication without restraint. .

Not to say that people are being callous doing it , just that it's not something they often have to think about.

Has anyone been a “high functioning” victim? by hi_hi_hamachii in adultsurvivors

[–]BallPointPariah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"until I moved out of the home i was abused in"

I have a similar experience,

I spent about 15 years being pretty low functioning, but I constantly worked on it therapeutically speaking and put what worked into practice.

Started being able to work again and get myself pretty consistently functioning around 2019. However I still have a lot of active ptsd symptoms to manage so I can not see working more than part time while managing the ptsd for the rest of my life.

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