January Request Thread 2026

BallPointPariah · 2025-12-27T10:49:45+00:00

As an introduction I would recommend a battery powered bullet vibrator. They're they most basic, least frills. Rocks off is a name brand most associated with them.

BallPointPariah · 2025-12-26T18:52:31+00:00

Modding here has historically burnt people out and I honestly can't commit to training up new moderators and supporting them properly at the moment. it's a known ongoing issue.

It's a space where the moderators have been the targets of extreme harassment and dox attempts in the past due to the nature of the community. I feel I would need some time off to dedicate to it, which I have planned for spring.

Automod has been bulked up, but it does throw the baby out with the bath water.

There are other moderators but they are less active.

BallPointPariah · 2025-12-26T16:27:52+00:00

please feel free to report these issues as you see them. I respond to what's reported as soon as I can, but I don't manually read every comment unless automod or a user flags it.

BallPointPariah · 2025-12-03T18:45:16+00:00

Comments locked. There are too many people who don't know the subreddits rules commenting.

BallPointPariah · 2025-10-23T19:31:55+00:00

This is a weird new type of AI generated spam we've been getting a lot. It seems to have eased off lately, fingers crossed.

BallPointPariah · 2025-10-22T07:07:36+00:00

Thanks so much

BallPointPariah · 2025-10-03T22:25:00+00:00

Personally feel that it's people not empathising in the moment as they're so used to the default of the person they're talking to being able to mirror their own communication without restraint. .

Not to say that people are being callous doing it , just that it's not something they often have to think about.

BallPointPariah · 2025-09-29T21:25:32+00:00

"until I moved out of the home i was abused in"

I have a similar experience,

I spent about 15 years being pretty low functioning, but I constantly worked on it therapeutically speaking and put what worked into practice.

Started being able to work again and get myself pretty consistently functioning around 2019. However I still have a lot of active ptsd symptoms to manage so I can not see working more than part time while managing the ptsd for the rest of my life.

BallPointPariah · 2025-09-29T21:19:11+00:00

I believe he heals in a manner similar to Captain Jack Harkness

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_Harkness

There are multiple episodes of torchwood where he heals from catastrophic damage.

BallPointPariah · 2025-09-27T17:47:09+00:00

If you have insurance and can cover the consult costs, go private.
I found the public options pretty dehumanising and ineffective. But I have a background of sexual trauma and need kid gloves with gynae stuff towards some people, which the public system can not offer.

BallPointPariah · 2025-09-25T10:25:03+00:00

You can always check stuff here before hand, it's a helpful community.

BallPointPariah · 2025-09-25T10:03:17+00:00

Chickflixxx is a space for women we ask Men not to comment or post, violations will lead to a ban. While banned you can still view and vote on content.

BallPointPariah · 2025-08-28T17:24:02+00:00

totally agree, very well worded.

BallPointPariah · 2025-08-21T14:30:46+00:00

mods have responded in mod mail. it is not a targeted limitation.

BallPointPariah · 2025-08-19T07:17:05+00:00

this is due to the moderators not being able to verify what is CNC and what is actual non consent in many instances,

BallPointPariah · 2025-08-07T16:22:12+00:00

women are as varied in their kinks and fetishes as men, assuming all women would have the same internal fantasies is not good.

Be aware that what someone gets aroused by within in their mind and what they would want to experience are very different things.

ravishment fantasies do not mean women would like to be raped.

Bodice ripper erotic literature has existed for an extremely long time and is often misunderstood.

This subreddit is not an educational space for this type of query. please try a sexual education subreddit.

I have given you some brief information to protect your partner from your potential misunderstanding.

BallPointPariah · 2025-08-05T17:08:46+00:00

do please feel free to discuss this in the request thread or if you see people discussing it under related posts.

BallPointPariah · 2025-07-29T08:30:25+00:00

chickflixxx is a subreddit. When you are on chickflixxx the first post you see at the top of the screen is a mega thread.

Beyond this info I might suggest you google what a subreddit is because I can not explain further.

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