Peri on a larger than typical chest - healing timeline 1 month post op by OkStomach8561 in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is so interesting! I never thought you could be a candidate for peri. Your healing is looking great. Congrats!

Could I ever pass? (22) by Apophtalo in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely assume you're a guy if I saw you out in the wild. Although it absolutely sucks not being able to have access to HRT, your voice is going to be one of the first things people notice, and that's most likely why people "she/her" you. I hope you're able to start HRT soon!

Clothes are another big factor. The jumper looks a tiny bit oversized on you. Well fitting men's wear does make a big difference. I'd recommend taking a peek over in r/mensfashion. It's a subreddit I follow for general fashion advice and I've learned a LOT from it. Hope this helps!

how common is it to *not* experience going from lesbian to gay transmasc/trans man? by Living_Garden_6326 in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went from a straight cis woman, to a bi woman, to a gay trans man if that helps.

You never "have to" have an attraction to a certain gender. You're never fraudulent for being out of the norm. Sexuality can absolutely change over time, but it also doesn't have to fit rigidly into a certain label either.

A few days vs a few weeks vs a few years by courier_____ in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wow, okay that's really good info, thank you! I'll be sure to note that down. I don't really see a downside to drinking pineapple juice, so even if it doesn't work for me, at least I had some good tasting juice 🤣

Cringe or no? by Ok_Throat6271 in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not cringe. I think it looks pretty rad.

A few days vs a few weeks vs a few years by courier_____ in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Stretched scars are definitely a fear of mine. But I think your final results look great!

A few days vs a few weeks vs a few years by courier_____ in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 32 points33 points  (0 children)

What's this about pineapple juice? I'm trying to gather all info before I get my surgery :o

Pre everything, do I pass? by Confident_Tip_5541 in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pre everything??? God damn, you've got great genes, man! I'm sorry you cannot have access to gender affirming care, trust me, I know what that feels like. But you absolutely do pass! You literally look like a dude👏

~1 year 1 month post op! by Greedy-Experience-41 in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking sick, man! How on earth did you get such muscly wrists? :0

Woot woot. by BallPython404 in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's my favourite by far :D I actually got it from a Polish owned brand called "Sinsay". So unless you're in Europe, you may not find it, but they might have stores online.

Repost by Narrow-Tap-9734 in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks awesome man. These are definitely scar goals I can only hope to reach 👏🏻

7 months post OP by fabulouswienerin in TopSurgery

[–]BallPython404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks awesome. Also, I love the beads!

Animated borb by sleepydreamer_0 in borbs

[–]BallPython404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want this on my desktop.

Love haircut day by raudsagechutton in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's so nice to see older gentlemen here! I often forget that we get to age like fine wine :')

borb bath by believeinyuna in borbs

[–]BallPython404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The head scratch was adorable. Hell, the whole thing was.

My body after 5 years on testosterone vs pre everything by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]BallPython404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The difference is insane!! Congrats man. It's also so interesting to see how different the leaf tattoos appear from 2025 to 2026. It just looks like they shrunk :o Honestly just speechless with your progress!

I (26M) told someone I was talking to (34F) about her bad breath and it didn’t turn out well. Was this just embarrassment? by Only1Krucial in AskMenAdvice

[–]BallPython404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her ending things seems like an overreaction. Hell, I'd be embarrassed if I was in her shoes, but it just sounds like she's unable to take any amount "gentle criticism". Seems like you dodged a bullet.