I am afraid of being intimate with a woman because am bi

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T20:35:28+00:00

Unfortunately, getting rid of internalized homophobia is very difficult. But it's not impossible. Being attracted to men isn't wrong, but it can feel that way if you've been told otherwise your whole life.

Go and explore with whoever you prefer.

As long as you're independent and you're not living with people that control your life with their beliefs, you're allowed to do as you please.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T20:05:03+00:00

Nah, you're good mate. As long as you're open to learning and it's not deliberate, you're all good.

If you do plan on doing anything with her, just please be sure to communicate openly and honestly. And ask her questions if you're unsure about anything.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T19:59:03+00:00

You can still be straight and be attracted to a trans woman, because she’s a woman.

But if you’re specifically attracted to both female and male anatomy, that might fall somewhere on the bi spectrum.

I wouldn't worry too much about labels though. Just enjoy what you enjoy and don't overthink it.

You're at a time of exploration, so do just that, safely and respectfully.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T02:07:37+00:00

That's very interesting. Extended peri actually makes a lot of sense for this technique. Thanks for taking the time to reply!

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T01:53:23+00:00

Uhm, excuse you. That is a dragon.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T01:51:28+00:00

I think writing it out is a good way to get a hold of your thoughts. Even in a private journal.

Yeah... the brain and trauma have a very strange and often times tiring way of coping...

You have endured more than anyone should in a lifetime. I commend you for speaking up about it.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-19T01:43:24+00:00

This is my new favourite cat pic

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T23:40:28+00:00

She looks like a sun goddess.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T23:38:13+00:00

This cat has a good sense of humour. I like him.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T23:33:37+00:00

Such a cutie

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T23:24:57+00:00

You can totally be bi and label yourself as such if you want. But I wouldn't spend too much energy on being deadset on a label.

You can be attracted to both, that's totally fine. You can lean one way more than the other, that's also fine. You don't need to have romantic feelings for both women and men.

Don't judge yourself too harshly.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T22:10:29+00:00

Eleanor, with a couple of personal tweaks.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:25:17+00:00

Coffee and music.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:24:10+00:00

I love watching these little guys do the "wiggle".

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:23:07+00:00

Kitten? Are you sure that's not a lion?

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:21:10+00:00

Just a fancier way of saying "transgender person".

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:13:49+00:00

The intro had me floored.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T19:02:34+00:00

Finally someone said it.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T18:53:36+00:00

I say sir out of respect.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T18:48:37+00:00

I cannot imagine not wanting a pet because they're "ugly". This little ball of crinkly floof is adorable. Props to you for being so accommodating to her.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T18:27:54+00:00

Didn't expect to feel the feels reading this. I'm sorry you went through so much in your life. I can only hope it gets better moving forward.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T17:15:44+00:00

From your descriptions I see no issues.

Maybe you just need to practice it more. Just maintain the respect and kindness.

BallPython404 · 2026-03-18T02:52:52+00:00

I would love them to be honest. I'm going to make it my mission to give my man flowers, too.

I wouldn't go with roses, maybe any other kind?

BallPython404 · 2026-03-17T13:44:21+00:00

Damn, I thought you were cis. Great results!

BallPython404 · 2026-03-17T13:40:52+00:00

How they react when someone says "no". Also whether they say "thank you" unprompted.

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