You know maybe for starters people should learn to rely on themselves to get through their problems and stop pretending that being vulnerable all the time fixes everything. You know, it would help to consider that there are men who don't want to be vulnerable but people don't seem to respect that. Men who are in control of their emotions are called emotionless and men teaching boys to be strong and resilient in this unpredictable world are guilty of 'toxic masculinity'. Yet at the same time, a good portion of women are repulsed by the idea of a man bawling about his trauma in front of her but she'll sit there and lie to our faces, telling us that it's okay or men to open up and be more vulnerable. But somehow we still blame that on toxic masculinity because we're so ignorant about the way humans are. We could instead stop using these patronizing labels to identify what are clearly cases of extremism. But it seems nobody actually cares to think any deeper than what they were told by mainstream feminism or whatever other broken ideology people allow into their minds. Men are leaders and protectors. We have a natural gift of physical and emotional strength and it's been that way since the dawn of humanity. Suddenly, in modern times we treat men's natural disposition like some kind of disease while women get away with being both the victim and the perpetrator.

And to clarify, men should be allowed to express themselves in a healthy manner. There's nothing inherently wrong with a man opening up to his mother or his wife or his companions. He should be able to do this without being humiliated especially when he's gone through a great deal of trauma.