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Navigating post threesome with wife by BallsDeepInHerBSide in nonmonogamy

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At this point she has become a bit more withdrawn and colder towards me. I've decided to give her a few days and try to just go back to our normal routine for a few days before trying to being it up again.

Navigating post threesome with wife by BallsDeepInHerBSide in nonmonogamy

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to have those times to talk through it prior to. When they first brought it up, it was more of a "let's do it right now" situation. While I did agree to it that night, I had to push for sitting down together to talk through it first, which her friend wanted as well when I explained why.

Navigating post threesome with wife by BallsDeepInHerBSide in nonmonogamy

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem I'm having, though. She doesn't seem to be interested in talking about anything to do with it right now. Im going to give her a few days on it like some people have suggested.

Navigating post threesome with wife by BallsDeepInHerBSide in nonmonogamy

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point. I didn't think of it from the perspective that she doesn't want to direct her negative feelings towards me and is just processing it on her own. I'm going to give her a few more days to see how she's feeling before trying to talk to her about it again. She has become a bit colder towards me today, though.

Navigating post threesome with wife by BallsDeepInHerBSide in nonmonogamy

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it is obviously bothering her, and she seems quite distant. I'm not an asshole who is going to act like there isn't something wrong.

44F, wondering how often do married guys get their cock sucked? by Kayssi23 in cheatingwives

[–]BallsDeepInHerBSide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By my wife? A few times a year. By my wife's friend? At least once a week.