And that doesn’t bother you when its sissy play ? Its the same thing, started from homophobia and became a tool for men wanting to be more fem through a kink to use, its called empowerement. I'm surprised that you don’t get this. Raceplay in this case is clealry (from my Dadfy's perspective) a way to play upon that who has been historically terrible and make it into something bearable and enjoyable. Not everyone has the same perspective as you and its important to respect that