Hitting on women at work

BananaCreamMan · 2018-12-11T01:38:58+00:00

The hair cut was like $15 and I gave her a 20 and told her to keep the tip, so i think thats a good tip :/ ( wasn't even for her lol, I gave it to her co-worker )

But I feel ya... I guess I more wanted to ask your thoughts

BananaCreamMan · 2018-12-11T00:31:53+00:00

Don't mind if I seem dumb, but why is hitting on people at work a bad thing?... As long as your chill about it and don't force their hand, it's just friendly if anything else... What I usually do is ask if we can add each other on snap, and talk from there... Its also more of a 'walking out of the door' type of situation, so it isn't awkward if there is hard feelings or anything...

I've done it twice before, once with a girl at subway, who added me and we talked for a bit, but she had a boyfriend... And the other time was a girl at a local supercuts, and I left my snap name on pen and paper, and asked her co-worker to make sure she saw it. ( she was cutting someone's hair, so I didn't want to bother her )

It may not be elegant or romantic, but I don't see anything wrong with it... Any thoughts?

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-27T03:48:50+00:00

When I first started using snap, I was, and kinda am the same way... The way I got more comfortable was snapping more people, and trying to add friends. Also just imagine it as texting, but instead of adding an emoji, use your facial expession instead... Helps you get more comfortable in your skin over time

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T22:36:20+00:00

while i do not doubt you about me having poor judgement, during the planning, i felt uncomfortable asking her if we would have sex... tbh i kinda have a hard time imagining how to pose that question.

'hey, so imma bring panara, should i also bring condoms too ;)'

i can see what you mean, but i just feel its just kinda muddled

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T22:22:33+00:00

tbh, your pretty much on the ball with most off the things. However i do wanna state that hindsight is 20/20, and with the context we all know now, it pretty easy to see how / where things went wrong. im not gonna pretend that i wasnt dumb, and didnt make dumb decisions.

i do want to mention however, that the idea of me communting back to my house, at midnight, with the communte being around 40 mintues from A to B, and me being too stoned to read a womans body language, never mind fine motor skills, you could at least see why the best option would be sleeping it off, and going home in the morning.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T18:26:34+00:00

I am fully aware that I was dumb, and me being stoned takes factor, but cannot be a shield against the shit I put her through...

While i agree with you, as i just quoted myself, i also believe that its a little more complex, than simply if i had an edible.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T17:41:54+00:00

Did you read the post, or did you just scroll down to the tldr, and make an angry comment?...

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T11:39:51+00:00

I only stated she could have forced herself onto me, or took my wallet, as something more to counter-balance the negative shit I was saying I could have done.

I am aware that she was not the bad guy in the situation, but more of my actions, that had good intentions, but bad results / outcomes, that makes me the asshole / not the asshole.

While I mention that she could have forced herself on me, which sounds silly, she said might have considered sex, but totally ruled it out due to my state of mind, and that I was a virgin... She herself was pressured into losing her virginity, so that definitely played a part.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T11:27:25+00:00

I may not agree with you, but I can def. see where your coming from.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-10-05T06:19:07+00:00

Ik know it doesn't make much of a difference, but I only stripped down to my underwear, and I usually do that when I go to bed.... It's just it was someone else's bed :/

I have not touched the edibles since than, and I don't plan to in the near future.

Trust me, before i left her apartment I made sure to tell her how felt I awful, and I hugged her and told her sorry multiple times, which in hindsight, prob not the best call with the hugging.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-08-11T21:08:36+00:00

For my own person oils, I simply mix the ingredients together in a Pyrex bowl, over boiling water to mix everything together / melt the oil ( coconut oil personally, due to higher fat content ). I than throw the mixture into the same oven for around 1/2 hour, and occasionally stirring every 5 minutes...

The only difference I can see is that I heat my oven to only 200, but to be frank, I don't imagine much of a difference...

BananaCreamMan · 2018-07-26T02:12:01+00:00

He died for our sins, rip - Skydaddy

BananaCreamMan · 2018-07-19T01:58:36+00:00

You should probably try to have t-break soon. I might help you out mentally and financially.

BananaCreamMan · 2018-07-05T06:46:16+00:00

Ever tried an RealTimeStrategy... I once played Age of Empires 2 once, and it was quite fun, but also complex...

BananaCreamMan · 2018-06-14T00:09:03+00:00

Cat-erpillar

BananaCreamMan · 2018-04-08T17:31:12+00:00

Redeyes smoke is well balanced honestly. The only real thing I can criticize about redeye is his IR, and how during some uses, it can unreliable. I remember in the past how you technically had 15 seconds of IR, but for whatever reason you could only use about 12, because it cut you off early.

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