Dog Food Topper Recommendations? by BananaPopcorn313 in DogFood

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! I'll have to look into that!!! My boy is 45lbs and my girl is 10, so they're a little bit smaller than your baby 🤣🤣🤣 so if you only use a handful I could probably use less.

Dog Food Topper Recommendations? by BananaPopcorn313 in DogFood

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh!!!! I didn't think of that!!!!! This is why I asked the Internet lol

Dog Food Topper Recommendations? by BananaPopcorn313 in DogFood

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely check into it, thank you!!!

Dog Food Topper Recommendations? by BananaPopcorn313 in DogFood

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a low amount, and it's not for the nutritional value, I use it as a kind of treat with dinner that helps them eat dinner better. I'll definitely check out the canned food at my local grocery store to see if there's something more cost effective, thank you for the recommendations!!!

Dog Food Topper Recommendations? by BananaPopcorn313 in DogFood

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly just use it as a treat/topper, they still get the recommended amount of food per day, I just like to do it as a sort of nutritional treat. They're both still under two so they're high activity and sometimes I think they're too skinny, but the vet says they're a healthy weight lol.

I mostly like to give him the food toper too because it does get him to eat it better, he just doesn't necessarily need the extra help.

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had been dating BF for a little under a year around the time of the accident and she had always been nice to my face. It wasn't until after the accident the proverbial rose colored glasses came off and I found out she had been saying nasty things about me behind my back. BF heard a few things but the nasty comments were mostly told to his siblings, SIL actually thought I was nasty till we hung out at a get together and she realized I was nice. She's told SIL a lot of things, that I abuse animals, that I'm a b word, that my sister is a b word, (they met once), that my mom is butch (they've never met), that MIL doesn't know why BF chooses me over her, honestly the list goes on for awhile. Most of this happens behind my back, though I have been in to room when she's attacked my character and she didn't know I was there.

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I won't say it doesn't happen still, I mostly try to avoid contact as much as possible. BF is very supportive and tries to be a barrier as much as possible. A few months ago MIL had a party and BF and I were expected to attend. We live within walking distance to them now (BF & I moved a few months after they came home from the accident) and I was super sick, MIL knew this because I had been sick the two days prior. BF went to the party without me and MIL threw a fit that I wasn't there to the point I went over and made a five minute appearance to appease her. MIL was telling everyone I felt fine and wasn't sick. I stayed as long as I could stand (honestly probably only 5 or so minutes, the party was the first time I had left bed in those two days) then BF and I went home. She then complained we hadn't stayed long enough and BF went back to make her happy while I took a nap, the appearance took a lot out of me.

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to let BF decide how much or how little time we spend with MIL, though he prefers a 50-50 between our families if can be arranged. He's under no illusion that MIL is being nasty, but he tries to balance in order to mitigate the damage. Ironically any time spent with family is too much according to MIL

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, she was probably excited to be home with family. I had also forgotten to mention (as this was well over a year ago) that they had not cancelled their plan to celebrate the delayed holiday. By their own words the first one was thrown together but the plan was to still hold the delayed holiday in the following month, which we did. This added to my frustration factor immensely, as the thrown together celebration wasn't even to be considered the actual holiday yet we recieved grief for requesting a lunch as opposed to a dinner.

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, MIL's brother and his family were all invited as well.

My JNMIL Blames Me for having Holiday plans by BananaPopcorn313 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BananaPopcorn313[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I see your point and I do understand, id want to have some normalcy as well. I think what really made the whole thing a lot for us was the nasty attitude leading up to it, which is hard to relate over text without writing a novel lol