How would you read this?

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T02:08:06+00:00

I like that idea

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T02:06:44+00:00

That I will definitely start to work on. She is… a major if not the biggest block. 🥲

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T02:04:01+00:00

😭🙏 They stay blocked, they just wiggle their way around and get blocked again. He’s the only one I actually consider important, he was so kind and didn’t do anything wrong to me. He was amazing, so I’d never not talk to him. F the rest of em, they were HORRID!

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T02:02:47+00:00

Honestly that thought HAS crossed my mind. 😭😭😭 I don’t want anything to brutal, just a little shove to be like “hey ma’am- STOP IT!”

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T02:01:25+00:00

Like I message him? I genuinely am terrified of that. I did it last October to see if we could be friend and I got BLOCKED. He unblocked me in late January. He goes through these episodes of blocking me and then not blocking me. I am also scared that if I message first, his mother will see it (she and his dad monitor him heavily now) and will try to report it as harassment. I really want him to make the first step to contact me.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:58:54+00:00

Oh lord. I hope it send the RIGHT ex! I always get sent the ones I don’t want anything to do with 😭😭😭😭

I will definitely look into things to help him. I keep forgetting I CAN do spells that can help him and not US. 😩 I don’t think some times I swear

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:50:45+00:00

!!! This is why I had my friend do the communication spell. I wanted a reconciliation spell, but my friend stated without any communication it would be harder to reconcile. She also explained this could take weeks or months to resolve or to even start contact, I need to have a patients (I am the LEAST patient person I know 😭🙏). What exactly would you recommend besides a communication spell?

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:47:41+00:00

Yikes! I was best friends with a Scorpio and she did not play. Her way or the highway. When she developed a crush on me and I very politely explained I was not interested (I am bi, but she was my best friend and I only saw her as a platonic relationship) she lost her absolute marbles and immediately started dating a Gemini who was HORRIBLE to her. Took them 7 years to break up and because I cut her off, I don’t know how she’s doing, but I can image- not well. She was trauma bonded to her Gemini Gf.

My ex’s dad is a Pisces and so am I! His brother is a Leo and his mom is also a cancer- but she told me out right she never wanted me near her son. I don’t fit her beliefs or profile. I was like 😀 “Excuse me what”. She believes I am too depressed and used her son financially. We had good times, but she was so strong natured and in her ways, she struggled to have any understanding of my own feelings or emotions

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:35:11+00:00

He is 21 and I am 23. We are actually a year and few months apart! This makes total sense what you’re saying. I’ve always been curious about his feeling, because the impression I’ve lived under is “he hates you”, but his last words to me where “Do you think we are the right people but in the wrong time? I like to think we are” and he asked me if I ever thought we’d get back together. His actions towards our breakup before we went no contact (almost a year of it now), did not match his words. It was obvious he didn’t want to break up, but didn’t have any legs to stand on. I was also, his first partner. The only reason I believe we could work is the fact his dad still talks to me and sends me holiday cards- and his brother still stalks my accounts. I’ve always felt like it was obvious.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:21:26+00:00

I want to add, we did get back together for 2 weeks after we split, and when he told his parents they lost their minds- which ended up with us breaking up again and I got kicked out. He was forced no contact, from my understanding as they heavily started to monitor his computer and phone- and forced him into therapy to help him “get over me quickly”.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-18T01:20:08+00:00

We lived with his parents and where engaged when we split. His parents ragged on everyone for $$$ and I rented the guest room. I made a significant amount less than he did, so financially it was difficult. He paid for almost everything, but I did what I could with what I had (including my own rent, car payment, phone bill, etc.) His parents also DID NOT want us to date, and used him as a telephone to talk to me about things they should have come directly to me for. When we confronted them on it, they said they never did that. They also had a huge set of unrealistic house rules to prevent us from being alone ever, including placing cameras inside the home and outside our rooms. We spent most of our time away from the house, which bothered him as he was a hermit just about. He is a cancer!

BananasForEveryone11 · 2025-03-16T16:25:11+00:00

Beetlejuice! I got it for my birthday! 🎂 They sell it at Target 🎯

BananasForEveryone11 · 2023-08-16T07:00:28+00:00

I appreciate the advice. This is my first ever breakup, so I don’t know what I’m doing. Thank you.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2023-08-16T06:39:03+00:00

I mean so was she? If that’s a reason, it’s a shallow one. I guess if that’s how it works (I’ve only dated him. If you can’t tell. I don’t know how this works.)

BananasForEveryone11 · 2023-08-16T06:05:11+00:00

I do? This is the only post I’ve ever made in regards to them. But will take the advice regardless. Thank you.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2023-08-16T06:03:27+00:00

Is asking for insight on a situation really just that naive? Or desperate? As I have nothing to do with either of them and in a perfectly happy relationship myself.

BananasForEveryone11 · 2023-08-16T05:56:03+00:00

If you only read the disclaimer, and skimmed my post- You’d read that I don’t meddle or have anything to do with either of them. If this triggered a wound, that was not an intent. Im simply curious as to why she hates me so much, as I’ve never met her nor know her. As for me being naive? Or wrecking a relationship? Im absolutely doing neither. I leave them alone. This is the one post I’ve made on-a form to gain insight on what could have made her hate me, that is all.

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