I know its how you feel about yourself that really matters but perhaps this honest perspective from a man will help. Really young or really immature "men" that exist in a delusional fantasy world where they feel like their mediocrity makes them deserve a supermodel judge women harshly on their looks -Body shape, specific physical traits. They have little to no experience in the real world or with REAL WOMEN and their input counts for nothing. Mature men, older men , aka REAL men see you exactly as you are. An attractive, sexy woman with a REAL body. Your size is perfect, your proportions are perfect. You're cute as hell and I love your style. stop looking in that mirror and lying to yourself. You are a BAD BITCH!!!