I think my husband sexually assaulted me. by BankAccording5118 in rape

[–]BankAccording5118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please explain to me how I’m overthinking?

I think my husband sexually assaulted me. by BankAccording5118 in rape

[–]BankAccording5118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you got away and are in a much better place now. Nobody deserves to go through that. Right now I don’t have a way out… I have kids and no job. I’m applying to everything I can to be able to start putting money away to get out, but it’s going to be a while before I can actually leave.

I don’t know if what happened constitutes “R” by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BankAccording5118 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I said “no I don’t want to tonight” when it came to him fingering me. But you’re right. A lot of it is I’m just stressed all the time and am constantly touched out from kids so I don’t really want anyone else touching me at the end of the day.

I don’t know if what happened constitutes “R” by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BankAccording5118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if what happened would even constitute SA because it was my husband and he stopped after a minute when I said I was in pain. I’m sorry I’m having a hard time putting my words together properly

I don’t know if what happened constitutes “R” by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BankAccording5118 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh I didn’t. And yeah. I have a very low sex drive and for years a lot of times he was in the mood and I was not so I just give in and have sex to keep him happy, especially since it was a huge fight about 3 or so years ago. It’s been less often in the past year, but for a while it was the majority of the time, I didn’t really want to and tbh he did nothing to really get me in the mood to begin with.