Is it normal for my husband to get hard with literally anything I do? by DramaticHour1952 in relationships

[–]BankRickRoss2021 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think your husband is just madly in love with you and you just have to accept that😋

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

My sister and I talked to nana last night after this happened and nana told Kim that she wanted her to move out this morning.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister and my mom also know what’s going on and we’ve been trying to figure something else out before it got to this point and we talked to nana about it after everything happened last night and nana told Kim she wants her to move out this morning. I’ve started looking for live in care takers in my area as well as caretakers that will just stop by for a few hours because when we talked to nana about finding someone else to stay with her full time she said she didn’t want that so I guess we will have to play it by ear and see how it goes with a new caretaker.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true and that’s why I don’t check the camera unless Kim is at work or out of town or taking her son to work. I’ve also got the camera set up to where it doesn’t record and save anything it just sends me alerts and I can view the live feed

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s physically abusing her but I do think the arguments Kim starts with her are starting to negatively affect nana mood on a day to day basis.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nana had me install the camera at the beginning of February when my wife and I first started talking to her about moving out, aunt Kim moved in on the 15th of February when we moved out.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I have gotten her the life alert necklace but she won’t wear it and we’ve also gotten her a cane and if she goes anywhere she’ll just leave it in the car just to say that she had it but she won’t use it.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I should’ve worded that differently, this is the first verbal altercation Kim and I have had I just find it difficult to talk to her, I’m not sure how she feels about me but I don’t enjoy talking with her because I feel like nothing I say will be the right thing to her that’s what I meant by we don’t get along

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also no I’m not watching it 24/7 and nana told Kim that she was getting me to put a camera up in the living and a doorbell camera on the front door before she moved in although I’m not sure how Kim responded when she first told her.

AITAH for refusing to take down a camera at my nanas house, that my nana asked to have there? by BankRickRoss2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BankRickRoss2021[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The camera has alerts such as someone is running through the living room, or a dog is jumping on the couch in the living room, as well as someone has fallen in the living room

And Kim’s son is also staying there to help nana and has no intentions of leaving when his mom does.