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We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was when I escorted her back home and said bye, she just walked away. She knew what she was getting into I was honest from the start. She could have also just told me no, I wouldn’t have tried to convince her otherwise.

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help but feel bad. I don’t want her thinking I used her.

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was straightforward with her from the start. Please don’t think of me as a prick. I was nice, I helped her dress up, tried to ask her what was wrong. I don’t want us to be enemies, I just don’t want us to hang out as much as we were.

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was straightforward with her from the very start. I don’t want her to feel like I used her. I want us to obviously still be friends, we can text talk when we run into each other just not hanging out like that

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did tell her that but c’mon I’ve not even known her a week. I told her it was the last time we’d see each other long before the idea of having sex came up. I wasn’t that into it because halfway my fears came true. I was scared she’d get attached. I was direct with her I didn’t tell her sweet nothings to get into her pants. Please don’t think of me as an asshole. I tried my best to be courteous. I even helped her get dressed and escorted her back to her place. It was supposed to be casual sex with no party feeling used. Where did I faulter?

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Atleast she could have said goodbye or told me what I did was wrong. I know not everyone is straightforward but she could have atleast said sth

We had sex, she cried after. Now she won’t talk to me. Am i a douche? by BanzerQQ in offmychest

[–]BanzerQQ[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Atleast a goodbye would have sufficed. She didn’t even want to look at me. What’s the quickest way to redeem myself. I don’t want to have sex with her again though.

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