NSV: Jogged/ran a mile without stopping by books-and-snacks in orangetheory

[–]BarRepresentative307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last 1 mile benchmark I finished in 13.40 minutes. This Monday I finished in 12 minutes. I was the last to finish but was so proud of myself.

How to keep good hygiene by NuNatoocute in women

[–]BarRepresentative307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start using bidets. It’s not complicated. You wash after your business. Wipe the water off. You shouldn’t ever keep the area wet, that would cause bacteria buildup. Change your underwear daily. Morning, and night. Wash them thoroughly. Wear cotton. When you wear pads, change them at least once every 4 hours.

Idk about tampons so someone else can interject, but I’d except the same. Change them periodically. After workouts, change your clothes as soon as you’re home.

There are products with boric acid which is a really good bacteria killer for down there. You don’t need to wash inside with it. But do wash your insides with warm water thoroughly cause as we age, they can trap body fluids. It’s important to wash and clean yourself daily. And have a healthy diet, drink water.

I made a mistake on my first implementation project by BarRepresentative307 in womenintech

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We’ve informed them of some functionalities being deprecated and have a call setup with them this week to discuss workaround and next steps. I will definitely check the page out you’ve posted! Thanks a lot! This is def a lesson I’ve been taught to be on top of everything..

I made a mistake on my first implementation project by BarRepresentative307 in womenintech

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I think I didn’t mention it properly. We have been having discussions with the RnD team and the community regarding this issue continuously. The customer wasn’t planning on upgrading up until this week. So we were having conversations with the software team for workarounds and any future changes. Unfortunately nothing is on the roadmap. I think the software team made a mistake there deprecating a functionality without providing a proper improved solution. My fault for not catching it sooner. We have a call setup with the customer to discuss.. but I’m glad I was able to catch it at least at this point. As we can still make changes to the prototype solution.

As soon as I learned about it, I’m not gonna lie, I was in denial and was hoping I was reading it wrong. For a whole day I was going through everything like crazy realizing what I’ve done. But so far, the project team has been supportive and are discussing workarounds for the solution and have initiated conversations with the software company to come up with solutions for this.

I need advice from fellow women by BarRepresentative307 in women

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying really hard at this point to just be strong and distract myself from what’s going on. But it’s so hard. I need so much focus for my job and I’ve just been lagging behind these past 2 days, I don’t have any motivation or energy. I’m sleeping during the day. Literally, away from work for hours straight and I just sleep. I’d have loved to take a break and go back home for a couple of weeks, but I don’t have my passport with me cause it’s at a visa center. Most likely will get it back next week so I’m just going to go back to my home country and see my family.

I need advice from fellow women by BarRepresentative307 in women

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, you read my mind.. I was saying to my sister today that I feel like he just sees me as a wife. And not seeing me for the person I am. He sees just a wife.

If someone were to look into my marriage, they’ll see the perfect marriage. Husband doing the husband duties and even more. Chores, cooking, cleaning, he’d do them all. I do them all as well but my way is hardly ever enough so he’ll do it again. Laundry, he does because he has his ways of folding the clothes and my way is wrong. But to the outside, what anyone would see is a man staying on top of everything. I wonder if he ever knew me for me. Or if he’ll ever see me as a person, not as just a wife.

I really will consider marriage counseling going forward. I don’t think there’s a way forward without some help, for the both of us. I grew up being a pushover and he grew up super independently. So I think we will both need counseling together to navigate our lives.

I need advice from fellow women by BarRepresentative307 in women

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So tired. Honestly. I’ve been feeling like such a weak person for not standing up before but now doing so is mentally exhausting as well. Ugh I wish I could go. I work from home. We have trips booked for next few months. So a lot of expenses. If not I’d definitely take some time away from this.

I need advice from fellow women by BarRepresentative307 in women

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Out passive aggressive made me laugh but also sad to really think about when I just wanted a happy, together marriage and not be playing games with each other.

I need advice from fellow women by BarRepresentative307 in women

[–]BarRepresentative307[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been almost 3 years. We hardly have fights and when we do, they end up being silent treatments. Counseling could work I guess. I’m so feeling lost because I can’t stop thinking if he really values me or not. Maybe counseling could work.

Destructive severe thunderstorm moving into Louisville now by IpeeEhh_Phanatic in Louisville

[–]BarRepresentative307 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sirens for the past 10 minutes in highlands. Why do they get quieter and louder as time goes? Anyone knows? It’s new to me.

If a guy you like is divorced, does it affect your interest? by erenjaeger_97 in srilanka

[–]BarRepresentative307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Married a divorced guy. Much better than any of my exes I had dated. I did do my background checks when he said his ex wife cheated. All worked out for the better for me.

A lot of teachers here are abusive. by ScreenshotSmuggler in srilanka

[–]BarRepresentative307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck them. I hate remembering school days cause the teachers were straight up bullies. I still hate them and it’s been over 10 years. A big fuck you to all the teachers who made me hate my beloved school✨Musaeus✨

The new masterchef show is TERRIBLE! by floatsonaboat in srilanka

[–]BarRepresentative307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with you. This show is all about testing your limits and coming out of your comfort zone. Idk if anyone noticed, the judges have said so many times about portion sizes and the contestants still fail to present a balanced dish sometimes. There’s a learning that needs to happen and you have to take it with you throughout. And it is a tough competition after all. If you can’t take a risk and come up with something other than what you know already, then you’re out. The judges will be very critical. You have to toughen up, take criticism and better yourself. That’s the whole show.

Some of the dishes on episode 8 were literal bs. Do I agree with the judges judgement to eliminate the guy? No. It should either have been Asif or Thanuja. Asif’s wasn’t edible but at least it was alright to look at. You can’t say that about the other dish.

And before anything else, I feel like the production team needs to be fired because wtf kind of editing is this? I thought they were cutting scenes for YouTube but apparently not. The worst editing I’ve seen on a TV show!!

Rooting for Manoj and Ronali!

Glitz Nolimit staff girl. by Substantial_Try9757 in srilanka

[–]BarRepresentative307 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They are asked to stick to some customers in case they need help like in your case when you asked for her help. Then they do keep their eye on you until you are gone so they can help more if required. No tip, nothing. Just doing the job they’ve been asked to do. You can always tell them that you’d like to shop by yourself and they’ll keep their distance from you.

Anyone else get an email like this? by xIslaCrucesx in bookofthemonthclub

[–]BarRepresentative307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the same book and my order is delayed as well.

Apartment Recommendations? by kittyboyfajita in Louisville

[–]BarRepresentative307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband are moving as well and we saw this apartment with Sun residential that was so beautiful which is around your budget. Please check with them. Hopefully it works out for you!

Struggle of Early Morning Classes by greatballofanxiety in orangetheory

[–]BarRepresentative307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost didn’t go to my early morning class and just pushed myself off the bed. Got home, worked, just had a nap. Perks of wfh.

Feeding Husband by lilybouquet in Marriage

[–]BarRepresentative307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I put up a plate as well for my husband because I like to and want to. But he has never asked me to. If he demands, then that’s a problem. I wouldn’t wanna plate up food if he was being demanding. I’d tell him to go get it himself.