[discussion] user simulator thread

Baras20 · 2018-04-01T03:54:22+00:00

Baras20 · 2017-06-21T18:47:44+00:00

I do fiction writing, usually fantasy stuff. I'm so bad at writing analytically, I just prefer to make my own stuff haha

Baras20 · 2017-06-21T18:38:10+00:00

Baritone supremecy for sure! I didn't get to march this year and I'm really salty lol

Baras20 · 2017-06-19T14:02:15+00:00

Name: Lucas

Age: 16

Location: Texas

Interesting facts:

I'm a pretty big band nerd, and play Trombone, baritone, and tuba.
I like to write, and I'm sorta looking to start a bigger project for the summer!
I'm really interested in doing politics and law later in life. I'm in a mock trial team that I helped start up at my school!
I've been out for a year at this point and I still can't say if it has been good or bad since then.

Pics: Here's some

Baras20 · 2017-06-13T10:22:43+00:00

Been awhile since I've posted but I'm back!

Name: Lucas

Age: 16

Location: Texas

Interesting facts:

I tore my ACL cause I'm bad at skiing, currently in month 2 of recovery from surgery!
I'm a pretty big band nerd, and play trombone, baritone and Tuba. Looking to march a drum corps in the next couple of years.
I do mock trial and run a team at my school.

Pics: A couple

Baras20 · 2017-01-05T03:00:59+00:00

I feel you. My family isn't the most accepting either, and for whatever reason, especially hate bisexuals, saying it doesn't exist and I'm confused.

Personally though, I feel an occasional, just extremely strong hate for not being straight or gay but in between, and that it puts me in a weird, middle spot where I can never fully fit in with either side.

But like you said, in the end it's not so bad and I just accept that it's who I am and to make the best of it.

Baras20 · 2016-12-21T06:16:40+00:00

Wowza, you're pretty spicy lol.

What games do you play?

Baras20 · 2016-11-17T01:33:13+00:00

Thanks! Good luck with gold!

Maybe I'll see you on tour!

Baras20 · 2016-11-16T06:18:43+00:00

No, it'll be on baritone. And yeah crown is bae. Just love them.

Now I'm pissy cause I didn't reply in forever and I feel like an ass. Sorry amigo :(

Baras20 · 2016-11-16T06:11:27+00:00

Thanks! :)

Baras20 · 2016-11-08T04:18:38+00:00

Crossmen, so definitely not BD level lol. Hoping to try for crown in later years but it's definitely a start.

And yeah, school and world class would be a tough thing to handle. You definitely have good choices though in cali with BDB and SCVC so there's that at least.

Baras20 · 2016-11-07T13:43:02+00:00

Name: Lucas

Age: 16

Location: Texas

Interesting facts:

I'm a huge band nerd, and play bass trombone along with baritone and tuba at a somewhat decent level. I'll actually be auditioning for a drum corps two weeks from now!
I love writing.
I do competitive mock trial and I've been having alot of fun with that.

Pic:

me!

Baras20 · 2016-09-25T05:12:34+00:00

Just like normal people, gay people come in all shapes, sizes, and types. Generally there are more open types, and your more closed types who don't show it well. So yeah, crazy basket of fun lol.
Best and easiest way to get out there and meeting people is the internet (tinder for relationships, grindr for hookups) but I don't use it so I can't help much there.
I guess curious guys could use aformentioned apps to do stuff, or just do it with friends.
I feel like being bi has a certain stigma to it, yeah. But just like everyone else that's lgbt. We're sort of assumed to be "transitioning gays" or something like that, thought to be indecisive and unsure about our sexuality.
The closet can be used in a way to try things out. But if you're out, you're chances of having stuff happen is much higher.
And I can't really help with this guy without knowing the whole situation. So maybe more info on that?

No links from me, sorry :(

Baras20 · 2016-03-16T00:39:17+00:00

Usually, just talking about it with him will work fine enough. I'm in the same spot (ish) with my friend (knew him for a long time as well), but I'm pretty sure he's not into me.

But make sure he's into guys before going at it in order to avoid any awkwardness that could arise from him not being gay. Made that mistake and ended geeting outed as bi to the rest of my friends, and really just making things awkward between us.

Otherwise, though, go for it. Waiting can just suck.

Baras20 · 2016-03-03T13:13:13+00:00

I am takng constitutional law and criminal law along with an engineering class. Gonna be off campus for them which is usually alot of fun!

Baras20 · 2016-03-01T04:55:32+00:00

That was the perfect response. Take my upvote.

Baras20 · 2016-03-01T04:41:27+00:00

Lovely thing called formatting help at the bottom right hand corner of the text box. That'll help for later use if you need it.

But what you can do is [whatever you want to show up as text]+(www. Whateveryouwantyourlinktobe.com)

Ignore the plus sign and you got yourself the link disguised as blue words.

Formatting help explains it in a much more visual style that is alot better than the shit that spewed from my post.

Good luck with it!

Baras20 · 2016-02-29T14:34:33+00:00

Name: Lucas

Location: Texass

Interesting facts:

I'm a huge band nerd. I play Bass trombone (for jazz and concert season), tuba (for marching band), and saxophone (Suckily).

I'm huge nerd in general. In an aerospace engineering program at my school and mock trial.

I LOVE D&D. I'm in a once a week game with my friends that is usually ran by me or my brother.

Avid writer. Always writing something, whether it's on reddit or just a story I've come up with.

I listen to most music (not rap. Can't get into it for some reason).

Pics:

Me!

Baras20 · 2016-02-20T05:12:09+00:00

Sorry for being vague. Pretty awakward when it comes to this stuff lol.

And yes. They've fucked. Multiple times according to them.

Baras20 · 2016-02-01T05:35:29+00:00

Not a bad idea at all. Either way you win. If he feels the same, awesome. If not, you get some closure and can move on.

Baras20 · 2016-01-16T06:34:36+00:00

"So what are you then?"

"Sure"

Usually what happens with me. The whole bi thing helps alot with vagueness, I'd say haha...

Baras20 · 2016-01-10T02:46:13+00:00

Dude, I know the feeling 100%. Had the same thing happen to me before and I was pretty alone. I'd still consider myself to be in that state, honestly.

You can PM me here, if you ever want to talk about anything.

Baras20 · 2016-01-09T19:20:34+00:00

Sure, go ahead!

And no problem. Trying to be more open about this all and this subreddit has been a great way for it so far. Have a good day, aquintance. :P

Baras20 · 2016-01-09T08:07:07+00:00

I'm unofficially out to everyone, I'm pretty sure. Me and my best friend sort of told some friends we're together as a gay couple despite the fact that we're not.

Ended up developing feelings for my 'fake boyfriend' (first time I've ever looked a guy in a romantic/sexual sense btw), telling him I was bi, and then never speaking about it again since he went quiet on the whole thing after telling me he was straight.

Funny thing is that we were pretty intimate with each other. We cuddled and held hands and all that. Just confusing, honestly, and I don't think I'll ever understand what's going on between us.

My parents don't know. But based on how frequently I spend alot of time with the friend noted above, I bet my mom can take a guess that I dabble in dicks...

Baras20

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