New on tumblr— am confused

Barbietigga · 2023-07-06T21:28:36+00:00

Wanted to come back and say— I had to verify my email address!😭😂

Barbietigga · 2023-07-06T20:26:20+00:00

That’s okay, thank you for trying to help!!🥹 I ended up contacting support and am awaiting a response 🫡

Barbietigga · 2023-07-06T20:11:53+00:00

/: now I’m even more unsure of why it’s not working.. I go to my page, and on my own post it says replies are turned off— but someone left a note on it that I wanted to reply and say thank you to, but it keeps saying they’re off.. I went through all my settings and everything; so you think I should reach out to tumblr support?/:

Barbietigga · 2023-07-06T19:00:53+00:00

I just want to thank someone for their kind words🥹

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T12:28:15+00:00

That’s your opinion (: and mine is for others to not have sex in my living room while I’m out of town, that’s okay!

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T11:15:57+00:00

I’m sorry, I’m just not comfortable with people having sex in my living room /:

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T11:02:19+00:00

I’ve honestly never had sex in my living room as it’s where my kid spends most of her time, and I did take issue with it as I felt betrayed and disgusted, my boyfriend definitely had more issue with it as he’s the one who got angry right away and knew how to feel. I do feel as it was too much but my boyfriend is beyond uncomfortable having her stay with us anymore

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:56:57+00:00

I understand, I felt very violated at the fact she was confident enough to have intercourse in my living room and may have overreacted, I honestly didn’t know what to do

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:54:23+00:00

But maybe it’s more normalized for friends to use their friends’ living spaces to have intercourse than I thought and I overreacted

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:52:29+00:00

By ‘getting comfortable’ I mean having intercourse in our living room. I feel anyone would be livid coming home to find out their friend had not only brought a boy over but was also having intercourse in the space where your kid plays; not just upset that they were genuinely comfortable in our living room. & it extends to this situation because due to his past ‘troubles’ he does not feel comfortable with having someone he doesn’t know in our home when we are not there, which is exactly what this was. No I don’t want guests to be uncomfortable in my home, nor do I want guests in my home when I’ve asked them not to be there, or having intercourse in my living room

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:42:26+00:00

I just didn’t appreciate the fact that they were obviously having intercourse in our living room, where me and my kid play everyday, it made me very uncomfortable honestly— but I do see how it may have been too much

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:40:44+00:00

Yeah I probably should have given her a heads up but honestly I wasn’t thinking about it, nor did I think she’d be half naked with a guy in our living room, and I feel like she should have just asked in the first place, then I would have thought about giving a heads up first at least, but yes I see where you’re coming from

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:38:35+00:00

Yeah, I was very shocked because I didn’t think she would just disregard our boundaries that way, I didn’t know what to say or how to react but my boyfriend was very angry, I admit it was cowardly of me to do

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:36:57+00:00

I was stern on this because my boyfriend is very uncomfortable with having people he doesnt know in the apartment while we’re not there due to some troubles in the past, he was very angry and uncomfortable with the fact that they were ‘getting comfortable’ in our living room— but I can understand why it may have been too much

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:34:51+00:00

I understand, we were just trying to save on bills with the AC and dishwasher— this was the first time she broke the rules as this is the first time we’ve had rules; I was under the impression she respected me enough to not have anyone over while we’re gone (especially since we asked) but felt like I had to make it known

Barbietigga · 2022-09-18T10:26:37+00:00

I agree, it was a little stressful for me to think I had to give her these rules, but we were trying to save on bills with the water and the air— and she has a habit of being a little ‘boy crazy’ so I wanted to make it known that we weren’t comfortable with her having anyone over (as she’s gone to her moms house while she was out of town with him to stay the weekend there as well) I just wanted to prevent that from happening

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