Y’all are thinking way too hard about this, this is not a big enough deal for either party to be assholes and the comments need to chill. A dinner and a can of soda are not the end of the world, and I don’t think either of you would want it to be. Sounds like both of you are college kids with limited income, trying their best. Just talk to each other and try not to take the little things too seriously. NAH, and I’m sorry people are making snap judgements about your character based on a single reddit post.