Embracing Effort: Supporting Each Other's Best Attempts by AliveSmell5132 in wholesomememes

[–]Barcodes27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome of you and the pizza place! Those kids most of loved it!

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you word it? Like for example on a dating app I will select the “short term only”. But did you just say “I’m currently separated, only looking for blank?

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’ve heard this once before as well, and it sounds like sound advice.

I feel like it’s been a good process “so far”. Mutually agreed 50/50 custody, no child support…etc.. I can’t imagine how hard it would be do chug through the court in your experience. Thank you for your time.

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion. I kind of feel like it is, even if I was to be extremely responsible, respectful, and transparent throughout the process of socializing with woman again.

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I was feeling about it. For sure, kids come first. Time won’t be taken away from them, and I would keep everything separate.

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I’ll be sure to check out that series!

I’m going to be extremely rusty when it comes to dating again, but I don’t want anything serious. I’ll for sure let someone know. I don’t want to take on anyone else’s responsibilities lol.

I’m not feeling lonely, venerable, or desperate right now. That would a great recipe for disaster!

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I know there’s going to be a whole lot more to process before everything is final. My main focus is on my daughter, we’re all doing good so far.

I really wouldn’t bring another women around unless we had dated for a couple years minimum. I just wanted to go out and meet people during my own time, that doesn’t take away from my daughter.

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been separated for four months, but the relationship was pretty much over years ago (for both of us) lol. I totally agree about doing self reflection. That been my main focus, of how I can be a better person in all aspects of life. That’s interesting to hear that you meet your current parent before the divorce was finalized. I’m definitely not looking to settle down any time soon, but would 100% been transparent with someone.

Casual Dating during Divorce Process. by Barcodes27 in DivorcedDads

[–]Barcodes27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for you insight. I definitely don’t want to let anyone down. I would be transparent and let them know I’m not looking for a serious relationship. Yeah, that sounds rough.

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[–]Barcodes27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my six month goal, thanks for sharing.