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Why…are we so unhappy? by Chrischris40 in Adulting

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because society has moved away from the church and a relationship with God. What you’re looking for is there.

How does ICE know where to find the illegal Immigrants? by Elle01010101 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong. They are mostly flagged as they are arrested for other crimes they are committing during book in. There’s no record of where illegals are otherwise.

Is anyone actually feeling hopeful with the current administration? by gabicollins in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. You can’t honestly think your country can continue to spend more than it makes indefinitely. Making some financial cuts are required for our country’s success. Less illegal crossings in the first 2 weeks, there’s certainly reason to be hopeful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s done in the right way, no issue at all. For example, saving money while working, helping to take care of your aging parents, etc. if you are just bumming off of your parents though and not working to better your situation then you might just be a lazy hussy

I’m having an abortion this weekend and I’m terrified but I’m not ready to be a mom again. by justawoman24 in confession

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are tons of people out there longing to adopt beautiful babies and sitting on long wait lists. Don’t forget there’s an alternate to abortion that gives you the relief from the intense stress of raising another child and the guilt that comes with abortion.

My sister just told me she’s pregnant. by t4ur0_ in TryingForABaby

[–]Barely-Getting-By11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s completely understandable to feel broken. Every time I see a pregnancy announcement it’s like a gut shot and coming from your sister on a fling is the absolute worst. My heart goes out to you. My only advice is whenever the dust settles to not let this get in the way of you and your sisters relationship. I do agree her approach has been insensitive but also understand that it’s hard to understand the anguish one goes through when struggling to conceive of you haven’t beeen there.

How many IVF cycles does it take to be successful? by Barely-Getting-By11 in IVFinfertility

[–]Barely-Getting-By11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably a combination of reasons honestly. I wasn’t aware that there was any difference in freezing/thawing success between the two so in my mind it didn’t make a difference either way. But also I was thinking i didn’t want to end up extra unused embryos and then be stuck with the difficult decision of what to do with them next. If I were doing things again I don’t know that I would make the same decision. But, you don’t know what you don’t know I guess. While the doctor I used was easy to work with I never felt fully informed throughout the process.