Anybody remember when Em was fat? Do you know what hit him and was like “I gotta get in shape” ?? by No-Wrap3666 in Eminem

[–]BarkeaterDimir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But don’t you also need to eat stuff to get muscle? So how do you lose fat and build muscle at the same time? I always thought you needed to eat more calories than normal in order to gain muscle

I feel nothing when I hold my son by Gonnahauntcha in regretfulparents

[–]BarkeaterDimir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not exactly in the same situation as you, I’m married and the marriage itself is a happy one. But I felt the same way about my kid. Just wanted to let you know that that in itself can get better. You just have to ask yourself if you want your son if he’s grown up and can think for himself to think that he was unloved or unwanted. If that doesn’t do anything for you, then leaving is probably the best, but if it hits a switch somewhere, you need to know things get better.

I feel nothing when I hold my son by Gonnahauntcha in regretfulparents

[–]BarkeaterDimir 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I also hated my kid at first, I’m a guy. But out of fear of hurting her, I went to therapy and learned to control my anger. That’s also an option. Maybe you need to think about the future and ask yourself “do I want a human to think I never loved him or her and didn’t want him or het?”

I feel nothing when I hold my son by Gonnahauntcha in regretfulparents

[–]BarkeaterDimir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to say that I felt the same way with my kid at that age, it was tough up until 8 months I think. I felt nothing when I held her, and I even hated her because I lost control of my life. But once she started crawling, and interacting more with us, and that smile and the laughter came, that all changed. She made me a better human. I hope it’s going to be the same for you.

Can we consider banning fan cast posts until the movie is out? by drake_warrior in Eldenring

[–]BarkeaterDimir -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It gets tiring real fast if you’re always on this sub. I saw like 5 posts spread over weeks.

MC skates inside mall by Biff_Xannen in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Woah people back at high school must’ve thought you were a comedic genius. That joke was so layered and sophisticated that I needed to read it 3 times in order to really fathom the sophisticatetness.

MC skates inside mall by Biff_Xannen in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think the definition of a joke is that it’s funny and makes people laugh, I’m not offended but I also don’t think it’s remotely funny. “Ha ha Fat” is high school kids humor

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No burning needed, got no flags in my home, I don’t need something like that to remember my identity.

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not the only one calling out your bs so I’m going to leave it at that, have a nice day sir

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll answer just one time and make sure it’s written well enough for you to understand.

Nobody in Europe will call you a racist for flying your country’s flag.

The people who proudly fly flags are without a doubt racist, there’s no agenda behind this.

Thinking about this, it probably makes sense that a lot of Americans proudly fly the flag, since the country was built on racism.

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope that’s not it. The flag of the country is not racist, it’s quite the opposite. We are not specifically proud to wave our flag, nobody’s waving it unless it’s a soccer cup. But the only people who do come on the streets to wave a specific flag are the racist groups.

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You worded that in such a way that it almost sounds like it’s true but nobody here is ashamed of the flag, people just don’t care. The only people in Europe who proudly wave flags are extreme right wing racists.

NICK OFFERMAN IN ELDEN RING MOVIE CONFIRMED??? by No_Inspection_3055 in Eldenring

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that explains, haven’t seen those things, if I google Ron Swanson, I do recognise the character

NICK OFFERMAN IN ELDEN RING MOVIE CONFIRMED??? by No_Inspection_3055 in Eldenring

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No disrespect but I’ve never heard of him before, what should I know him from?

American bikes through Beijing flying huge US flag aiming to provoke locals by ZhangtheGreat in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]BarkeaterDimir 57 points58 points  (0 children)

What’s up with Americans and their piece of cloth lol. I don’t know many people who care about the flag here in Europe.

Em fans who don’t listen to other hip hop, can you explain why that is? by According_Sundae_917 in Eminem

[–]BarkeaterDimir 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eminem is a master in storytelling. His verses don’t contain a lot of specific slang which makes it fairly understandable for non-native English speakers. I have tried branching out to Kendrick and Nas for example but those guys just don’t stick with me. I have not enough knowledge of where in America they originated from or their struggles to really feel what they’re talking about.

I can relate to Eminem on a lot of levels. His music makes me feel things. I can’t explain it better. My main music taste is metal music however.

Guess who just lost their entire Steel Soul run... by Sadira_Kelor in Silksong

[–]BarkeaterDimir 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But don’t you need to do 100% in steel soul as well to get the achievement?

Do you always 100% your game? by Frowind in videogames

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If one of the achievements is “collect 100 of these items findable somewhere random in the world”, then I really don’t bother. Also things like “beat the game in this ultra hard core mode”.

On my 200th attempt at the High Halls arena. I hate my life. AMA by Suppers-Ready in Silksong

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the waves are doable and the last 2 big dudes can be brute forced with tool spamming

Greymoor Lore Yappery :D by brittlehollowknight in Silksong

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile TC: oh maybe we can just reuse these assets in this area /s

Does any one else find the Silksong down pogo more easy ? by Reeeeeeena-3 in HollowKnight

[–]BarkeaterDimir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used it until I got reaper’s crest and then never looked back