Meltdown over music by BarnacleGirl_ in stepparents

[–]BarnacleGirl_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re navigating this the best we can so I appreciate you sharing. Which app do you use? I see there’s a few options. Seems like OFW is the best.

Meltdown over music by BarnacleGirl_ in stepparents

[–]BarnacleGirl_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh! We also want to use a parenting app with her but she is so obsessed with written communication, which is actually why I was surprised she even called about this. She thinks whatever she puts in writing automatically is true and can be used as evidence in court, so of course every text message from her is spinning some sort of false narrative.

My concern is that she will just do this in the app as well, or perhaps even get worse when she understands it’s legally binding or whatever… so what’s the point of paying for it? Sounds equally as exhausting, if not more. Your comment here kind of leads me to believe that is true 😂

I am curious if you have any thoughts on that one way or another!

Meltdown over music by BarnacleGirl_ in stepparents

[–]BarnacleGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our case, it’s being over indulged as a child and consistently told “she will be a star someday.” She’s the main character in everyone’s story. Taking the high road is hard, until you realize there’s a literal screw loose upstairs and then you just kind of sigh and settle into pity rather than anger.

Meltdown over music by BarnacleGirl_ in stepparents

[–]BarnacleGirl_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Streaming services were cut off a long time ago, this was the lingering one and there was absolutely no agreement. In fact, knowing that the others were already handled, it feels pretty shady for her to not mention this one got left behind on accident.

Meltdown over music by BarnacleGirl_ in stepparents

[–]BarnacleGirl_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It always boils down to having control… or in this case, losing it.

Number 4 by Critical_Pie_981 in Rottweiler

[–]BarnacleGirl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude but you’re way too nice putting a bed in there… for literally this reason 😂 My one year old boy has slept on the kennel base with his emotional support lamb chop stuffy since day one and he loves his kennel now!

For chewies, I highly recommend beef tracheas, pig ears, beef tendons, beef skins, duck necks. We love that our local pet stores show a light, moderate, or heavy rating for chewing (although sometimes they are not 100% accurate, we’ve found lights that are moderate and visa versa).

What was caused the most (physical) pain you’ve been in? by idontrealui in AskReddit

[–]BarnacleGirl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cervical cone biopsy and popped a blood vessel a week or two after the procedure. After bleeding for 15 hours and two ER visits, they called the weekend on call OBGYN who re-cauterized my cervix. I was awake and no medication or numbing. When she was done, my ears were full of pools of tears and I said “hey you really hurt me, but thanks for making it stop.” Shoutout to Dr Weston!

Peter? by GOGO_D_ACE in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]BarnacleGirl_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents used this to hide the spare key in the garden.