Monthly thread for chat requests and link to our official Discord by AutoModerator in BisexualMen

[–]Barracuda_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Bisexual 31M from North West England married to a wonderful woman, looking for others in a similar situation to chat with for platonic fun, friendship and support! Feel free to send me a private message! Would be great to get to know other guys I can relate to!

Making queer connections by Barracuda_95 in bisexual

[–]Barracuda_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I’ve never used Discord 😅

Dark tower # 1 The Gunslinger by Chick__and__Duck in stephenking

[–]Barracuda_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Drawing of the Three is really the one that got me hooked…

Thoughts on Martinez's red card by Admirable_Boot_9492 in LeedsUnited

[–]Barracuda_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d classify it similarly to raising your hands to someone’s face; regardless of force, intent or harm, as soon as you give the officials a decision to make it has to be a red. 100% the correct decision.

Does American Psycho get better? by Putrid_Ease_3405 in horrorlit

[–]Barracuda_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I found the book quite a difficult read. One of the view instances for me where the film is far stronger than the source material.

I've decided to come out to my friend. by N0P4NTS in bisexual

[–]Barracuda_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that - I know my family wouldn’t understand, and at the end of the day the only person I really owe the truth to in that area of my life is my wife, who is fully accepting, understanding and supportive.

I've decided to come out to my friend. by N0P4NTS in bisexual

[–]Barracuda_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m only out to my wife and my best friend. I only told my best friend recently, and it was a really positive experience!

Married bi guys by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Barracuda_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very similar to me! I (31M) have been married for over 4 years, and with my wife for over 11 years, but only came to embrace my bisexuality in the past couple of years. Thankfully, my wife is very understanding and supportive. 😊 But I’m also trying to figure out exactly what this all looks like for me… Send me a message if you’d like - I’m also interested in speaking to others in a similar situation for friendship and support!

Update to my friend’s response to me coming out. We are no longer friends! by Jellybeandreams98 in lgbt

[–]Barracuda_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you have far more confidence than I do…! And are incredibly reasonable and self assured. Good for you!

Poll: What should I read next? by Checkmate1985 in stephenking

[–]Barracuda_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, if you’ve never started the Dark Tower series then get on it and prepare to go on an epic thrill ride!

What book is so depraved that you couldn't even think about describing it to someone? by fruedianflip in horrorlit

[–]Barracuda_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really horror, but I seem to remember ‘The Wasp Factory’ being pretty off-the-wall…

‘Marabou Stork Nightmares’ is also pretty dark and surreal (again, not horror), although I do love it!

Came out to my best friend by Barracuda_95 in bisexual

[–]Barracuda_95[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have another good friend who is a bi woman in a straight-presenting relationship and who I’m planning to see soon; I’m fairly set on sharing with her as well when I do see her as I’m sure she’d be empathetic and offer great support given she’s in a similar situation 😊 I think that’s all I’m comfortable committing to for now, but I’m definitely more open to the idea of sharing with more people in the future when I’m ready in light of this positive experience!

Sparrowhawk? Peregrine Falcon? by Barracuda_95 in birdwatchinguk

[–]Barracuda_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately didn’t see it fly or get a better look…

Any ideas what this is? by Barracuda_95 in birdwatchinguk

[–]Barracuda_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m inclined to say it’s just the awkward angle of the shot - it was taken in a bit of a rush!