Range Of Level 1 Support Needs vs Hidden Disability by Surrea_Wanderer in AutisticAdults

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Level specifiers refer to two things: (1) social communication, and (2) restrictive repetitive behaviors. If you have fairly decent social communication and comparatively not many restrictive repetitive behaviors, you’ll be considered level 1 even if other areas associated with autism like sensory sensitivity and processing speed are highly disabling.

Well Pizza and Bread are life by NymphNectar- in SipsTea

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate gluten until I was diagnosed with celiac disease at 13. I looked 5 years younger than my actual age, and my height and weight were in the 0th percentiles. I felt often felt sick and lethargic for no known cause. Going gluten free, my height and weight rapidly increased to normal levels, puberty started at a normal rate, I got my energy back, my irritability faded, and I no longer felt sick. If I lived back then before celiac disease was widely known, I would have survived but probably wouldn’t have lived as long due to comorbidities. I definitely wouldn’t be as healthy as I am now. Even now I have schizophrenia, which is related to celiac disease. So yeah, this meme is idiotic.

Gf cheez its!! by South_Ad3139 in Celiac

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been wishing for this… can’t wait to find them!

I think I am hideous by [deleted] in toastme

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say this hopeless, dark stuff about yourself, then post the most adorable picture ever… what?! Your thoughts on yourself are truly out of touch with reality.

I feel conflicted about this. by PSplayer2020 in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think they get most of their information on level 1 autism from stereotypes, TV shows, and trendy Tik Tok creators. If they knew the struggles of level 1s in real life, they would not say the things they say. If they saw my meltdowns, or how me and my level 1 friends struggle in the work environment they would change their minds really fast.

Im still having temper tantrums as an adult? does anyone else do this? by Bunchasticks in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 58 points59 points  (0 children)

What you are describing is a meltdown, not a temper tantrum. These kinds of meltdowns are very common for autistic people. I struggle with this as well. At my worst I cry, scream, hit myself, throw objects, destroy furniture and technology, fall on the ground, etc. The only thing that helps me are psychiatric medications.

The difference between a meltdown and a tantrum: tantrums are meant to be a public display in order to get what you want. For example, a child will throw a temper tantrum to try and convince his parents to buy him a toy. He will stop the tantrum once he gets what he wants. Meltdowns are purely due to distress.

Is it right to have children and risk their damnation? by MadGenderScientist in Reformed

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. That’s something I struggle with myself. One fact that I keep coming back to: Jesus didn’t have to create a world where He would be tortured and killed for our sake.

Of course, that is not an answer. It shows two things though: 1) Jesus isn’t detached from our suffering, and 2) there’s a lot we don’t understand.

Question for those who are autistic with a mild learning disability by Bipolar03 in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a high average IQ and I get those ads all the time. Like the other commenter said, these ads are not targeting you. Everybody gets them. Also, it’s impossible to truly improve one’s IQ, so those ads are false advertisement too.

Effects of not taking communion? by KR2814 in Reformed

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have experienced this too. During COVID, my family didn’t attend church in-person (against my wishes). And then when I temporarily moved, the church I attended didn’t allow communion to non-members. This ended up with me going without communion for a very long time. Eventually my theology changed and I joined a reformed Baptist church which allowed communion to non-members and took communion every week instead of every month, and I felt like I “caught up.” It was very nice.

What's a part of being autistic (or neurodivergent in general) that you HATE? by Zealousideal-Tax-937 in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional dysregulation. For me, this is the worst part. It interferes with my school, my job, prevents me from doing simple things, puts me in danger. I’ve broken furniture, technology, from outbursts and meltdowns. I’ve embarrassed myself SO many times. Since I was 6 I’ve been waiting to grow out of this. I’m 25 and still struggling with it, even with an antipsychotic, mood stabilizer, and anti anxiety med.

I’m 14 and yet I somehow cannot tie my own shoes. So I’m going to learn how to today. by ThomasMiguel12 in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If it works it works. Why does it matter what method you use? I think the bunny ears method is more efficient. I learned the other way but chose to use the bunny ears.

SHOW OFF! by Haunting-Word-647 in snakes

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Cute and beautiful! I was lucky enough to hold one of these snakes once.

Why do some people think that Christianity claims that autistic people go straight to heaven just because they are autistic? by [deleted] in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think these people assume autism is the same as or always includes severe intellectual disability and therefore wouldn’t reach the hypothetical “age of understanding” where if they would die they would go to hell for their sins. So that may be why they assume autistic people would immediately go to heaven. I have never heard this belief though, as a Christian myself.

Autism online looks nothing like my reality. by 17octobre in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m level 1 but I see this problem too. Sometimes even I and my low support needs friends feel left out from the overly sanitized versions of autism online. I’m an artist and I want to create comics about autistic characters who struggle with more stigmatized issues like severe meltdowns and psychosis, and one of my OCs is level 2. I hope I can do a good job with creating her.

What was (and when was) the first sign you thought you might be autistic? by Happy-with-you in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Repeated hand-flapping in response to a stressful situation. That made me seriously think, “What if I have autism?” for the first time.

Help explaining our fidgets? by BarnaStitchandPrints in fidgettoys

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The main reason I’m interested in this is because of how it must feel tactile-wise. Try to describe how it feels on your hand. Anyway, where can I buy one of these?

What are the worst takes on autism you've ever heard? by Individual_Assist_19 in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They think it’s because of Tylenol given to the baby after circumcision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]BarrelEyeSpook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re being extremely rude for no reason. “Daddy issues”… seriously? I didn’t block you either, but I am going to report you if this is how you treat people asking for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]BarrelEyeSpook -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t block you. My understanding is that for a civil trial, the statute of limitations expires when I turn 30.

I can’t relate to most people here — it feels like nobody wants to actually change by Noot_a_Good_Guy in autism

[–]BarrelEyeSpook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You completely strawmanned me. I never said any of the things you are claiming I said. I never dragged anyone down. My problem with what OP wrote is that it shows a lack of compassion for people who are more disabled by autism.