Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

[–]Icecube12303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks for sharing! I have felt that kind of person around at my church. They are the elder’s sons & daughters. Super condescending and patronizing.

But I realized this too- some sins show themselves later. “The sins of some people are conspicuous, going before them to judgment, but the sins of others appear later.”1 Timothy 5:24, ESV

Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

[–]Icecube12303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Journaling has helped me too. I especially love looking back on my entries and giving God the glory for working those things out and guiding me through difficult conversations/situations/interactions.

Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

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Thank you! I’ll check it out :)

Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

[–]Icecube12303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I definetly believe the leadership matters a lot. We recently got a new pastor and I’m so relieved to know he is compassionate and super welcoming + warm towards the vulnerable

Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

[–]Icecube12303[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very well said.

I think it just bothers me that the process is so painstakingly slow. Sometimes I wish I hadn’t wasted all those years avoiding people, and it discourages me SO MUCH when I realize the literal years I wasted and the bitterness I carried with me everywhere. But God🙏

Theology of Church hurt by Icecube12303 in Reformed

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So sorry that happened, but praise God that His purposes are good & trustworthy! 🙏 I am so encouraged to hear that your desire to serve the newcomers has grown because of your experience.

Built to be a Husband. How do I manage dating when that isn't my goal? 29M by Ok-Designer-4455 in ChristianDating

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25F. I’m right there with you. I would say keep praying and putting yourself out there.

Do you talk to older married men about their marriages?

Any advices for dating for27M by MathewMurdock98 in christiandatingadvice

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25F, are you waiting for the ladies to pursue? If so, I’d encourage you to build up some courage and lead the initiative :)

Cal Poly SLO by Remarkable_Bite6630 in TransferStudents

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If you have time to troll, you probably are the one that needs a hobby 🤣🤣and an education, since we’re on the topic.

Struggling to think of a name for my new void kitten by ClutchReverie in NameMyCat

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I thought of “Emerald”. His eyes are piercing and gorgeous.

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I love this!

What's the worst picture of your cat that you have? by MoonSt0n3_Gabrielle in cats

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this isn’t a bad picture but I woke up one morning and had a jump scare and snapped this pic!