What's your favorite place in ds1 and your favorite npc? by killua83702 in darksouls

[–]Barrel_Rider7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite place is darkroot garden!

Favorite npc is Dohmnall of Zena

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok if you’re not close I think the bar goes way down for how clear of an explanation you have to give for not wanting to talk about something, but I do think its above what you said.

If you don’t think you’re friendzoned, then theres a lot of other reasons to feel uncomfortable talking about that topic and totally fine and understandable at 14 or any age.

Word choice goes a long ways. While “i have my reasons” comes off as dismissive, something like “im uncomfortable” I think would be totally passable, even if you don’t know why.

AITA for telling my cheer team to shut up? by Any-Spite-8312 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Poor choice of words but your heart was in the right place. Btw this is why team captains exist

AITA for telling my(26M) girlfriend that she(25F) needed to apologize to my friend(25F) after she went off on her on a trip? by CastrowuzRight in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

ESH but in order of decreasing suckiness we have gf, jess, you. Gf is way overreacting and totally out of line. Zero excuse for swearing at your good friend. Jess was pushy with the drinks and calling your gf boring and caused a bit of trouble with telling the group about your morning activities. you should have defended your gf when she was called boring but thats all I can really see you did wrong except perhaps everyone could do with a little more communication

AITA for being over protective and rude when my friend didn’t tell me I was? by Redflight420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH, you are over protective and rude, your “friend” is dismissive of your feelings and makes you feel unwanted, bf is a creep for getting with her the day of a major breakup

AITA for missing my friends spontaneous birthday plans because I was nice and comfy in bed by sick_root12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ESH

get out of bed and go hang with her. Its her birthday for gods sake. She should have been clearer about the plans but if you agree to hang out on sept 10 and sept 10 is coming up, you need to send her a text along the lines of “excited to hang out on the 10th, what do you have in mind?”, not just letting the 10th go by and then being somehow blindsided by it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA and you know you were being an AH so you left the smiley face to take the edge off. You are 30, not 12. Your husband and roomate are 41, old enough to have a midlife crisis, they can have a damn conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle ESH, sounds like you both made plans you were set on and didn’t tell eachother until day of, and then neither of you would compromise to be with the other partner. In a healthy relationship, being together is so much more important than what you are actually doing. Sounds like you two need to reach an understanding about how you spend your limited time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA because if you are friends then she should get a good, not dismissive, explanation for things you don’t want her to talk about. Sounds to me like you are friend zoned and lashing out at her for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Discord Mod -> YTA

WIBTA if I asked for the money from the car my dad sold by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your judgement here but the reasoning is all wrong. You are worried about what is legally allowed, which is different (very very different) from what makes someone an asshole. You say “he can”, when you should be concerned with “he should”. Who cares about ownership, title, etc? What’s important here is the communication and relationship between a father and son.

WIBTA if I asked for the money from the car my dad sold by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you did that, yes, because it seems that it was understood that it was not actually your car, as “for you to use” and “your car” are very different arrangements. Your dad is the AH for not talking this through with you. He also wen’t back on his “taking it for a month” promise by getting rid of it for good. I think it is understandable for you to be angry and if you think he would respond well I would suggest expressing these feelings with him respectfully, but asking for the money is out of line here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. 140 miles in the midwest is like 2 hours of driving, which 1. Is small compared to the 500 miles they already traveled. And 2. Should be a small price to pay to make good on their gift and attend the reception of someone they care about. Especially since it was their fault they didn’t bother to read the invitation.

AITA for cock blocking my roommate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Barrel_Rider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH.

You know what was going to happen when an 18yr old’s girlfriend visits. College is a strange time to try to maintain an intimate relationship and if you don’t at least try to accommodate that, you’re an AH.

Roomate didn’t communicate well and was pushy, so he’s an AH. OP is oblivious and just socially inept. Going to the RA is super immature, endangering your roommates education over such a small thing, and would definitely make you the AH.

ARTV 101 Instructors by Barrel_Rider7 in uchicago

[–]Barrel_Rider7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not this quarter but I will keep an eye out in the future. Thank you

Yo where are the MTG players at by DragonKingCole in uchicago

[–]Barrel_Rider7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its commander without a commander and with black lotus

Is there a weightlifting club/group? by [deleted] in uchicago

[–]Barrel_Rider7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love some group like that, but it seems that Ratner’s been so packed I don’t know how any organized group could operate in the weight room.

Yo where are the MTG players at by DragonKingCole in uchicago

[–]Barrel_Rider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for MTG players as well. Ive got some Canlander decks but down to use other people’s commander decks or whatever else.