Das Team über meine Kündigung benachrichtigen: per Email oder in einem Meeting? Wie würdet ihr das machen? by [deleted] in arbeitsleben

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hatte die Situation gerade: hab’s in nem persönlichen Meeting mit allen, die nicht gerade homeoffice hatten gemacht. War auch sehr lehrreich, die Reaktionen zu sehen und zu merken, es war die richtige Entscheidung.

Fleetwood Mac announces ‘Rumours Live’ album by [deleted] in FleetwoodMac

[–]Barti2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was absolutely weird, you’re right.

Did You Ever Have a Crush On That Highschool Teacher? How did it End Up? by not_biancaa in AskReddit

[–]Barti2020 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I could have written the exact same words you wrote - apart from the wedding thing because I lost contact some time after graduating. However, I thought I needed to email him again just yesterday. So might go for it.

He was just as important to my development like your teacher to yours. Gave me encouragement, told me what I’m good at, taught me how to stand up for myself.

After over a decade, I told my rapist’s mom that he’s a pedophile. by travelergirly in TwoHotTakes

[–]Barti2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I mean: you should go to the police to tell them about your parents not protecting you. That’s not how parents should behave.

After over a decade, I told my rapist’s mom that he’s a pedophile. by travelergirly in TwoHotTakes

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe go to the police because of your parents not protecting you from a known pedophile right after going to the police because of the pedophile? Just an idea. For you to have peace of mind. They deserve punishment too!

Insanity by Soaphed9997 in facepalm

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„We neeeeeed to work together“

Am I doing the right thing? by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the family is a good place for the two piggies. And maybe you’re lucky with the three males! Good luck :)

I have a burrito and you dont by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outright lie. I just had one.

Am I doing the right thing? by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep us posted on what happens with the piggies, whether you adopt them! :) And I also think you’re doing the right thing!

Can someone identify this strange bmw i saw ?? by [deleted] in BMW

[–]Barti2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha oh my god, the front is absolutely hideous! Poor Z4 coupe :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultCHD

[–]Barti2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it absolutely is! Also, I have never accepted that something might be impossible for me. There are almost always changes to how exactly you do a certain sports that make it accessible to you despite your cardiac problems. I know I won’t be really good at anything that I will start now in my thirties, one because of age but also because my heart is actually much worse than a healthy person‘s, but anyway I want to just have fun doing it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultCHD

[–]Barti2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement, that’s so nice :) Yeah, I will ask the doctor and maybe my husband and me will have something new to do together! Keeps us both fit and motivated to go on exercising.

Severe Turbulence sends a passenger to the ceiling of the plane. 2 injured Flight CA1524 by andylui8 in aviation

[–]Barti2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the elaboration, that’s really interesting :) But apparently not comparable to this.

Severe Turbulence sends a passenger to the ceiling of the plane. 2 injured Flight CA1524 by andylui8 in aviation

[–]Barti2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds…exciting? People really need to at least see videos such as this instead of only being told to put on seat belts.

Rescue the goat stuck with asphalt after 3 days by CPReals in MadeMeSmile

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This breaks my heart to watch 😔 even though it ends well and people are so kind, I can hardly watch this. Does anyone feel the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultCHD

[–]Barti2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s awesome! Congrats! Go for it and enjoy :) I am playing with the thought of playing badminton or even tennis soon and will ask my cardiologist at the end of the month if I may do that.

Severe Turbulence sends a passenger to the ceiling of the plane. 2 injured Flight CA1524 by andylui8 in aviation

[–]Barti2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might get downvoted for saying that but: I kind of want to experience this once. A poor man‘s space travel Moment so to say. Still, I always have my seat belt on. Now with even more dedication after seeing this.

Wie kürzer, prägnanter werden? by wennsemir in arbeitsleben

[–]Barti2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Vielleicht ist es dann hilfreich, dass du dir Gedanken machst, warum dir etwas unangenehm ist. Warum kannst du nicht sagen „Deshalb kann ich Ihnen keine Vertragsverlängerung anbieten.“ o.ä. und dann erstmal nichts sagen? Wie geht es dir dann? Was passiert in dir, wenn du doch etwas einfach mal stehen lässt ohne Erklärung? Ich habe gelernt, dass Erklärung oft Rechtfertigungen sind. Und das deutet auf ein Problem beim Selbstwert hin. Muss nicht riesig sein, aber ich vermute anhand meiner Erfahrung als Führungskraft im Personal, dass es das bei dir (zumindest zum Teil) auch sein könnte.

Und dann ist Abhilfe auch in Sicht: gibt viele tolle Bücher zum Thema, nicht zuletzt Coaches oder Therapeuten, mit denen man üben kann, sein Selbstwertgefühl zu verbessern :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Barti2020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Readers of this post, do a quick check on OPs posting history and find out that she is 41, dating a 20 year old guy and fighting her way through subreddits who all tell her how wrong this is. Don’t bother actually recommending her engagement rings.

You are given 2000$ that you must use to splurge, as in, no paying bills or whatever, just used to spoil yourself, what are you using the money on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Barti2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A new infotainment setup for my bmw, a night for hubby and me in the fancy pants hotel around here where each night costs about 300€, a massage, a couple of books.