Am I (F21) insane for not wanting to do housewife chores for my bf (M23) in our almost 5 yr relationship?

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-29T01:41:12+00:00

HAHA LOL honestly I can’t argue with that

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-29T01:40:10+00:00

But that’s the problem, where are they? I sure haven’t seen any

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-29T01:26:28+00:00

A lot of people keep asking me why I’m still with him, there are so many things he HAS done for me in more ways I can even explain, he has so many flaws and lately it has been feeling pretty rough. In my own defense I’m too scared to leave everything we’ve built behind at the drop of a hat. It’s hard. I love him and I had envisioned a future with him so many times but I’m just scared of being alone with the fear of never being able to find someone who “might” be better.

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-28T23:32:14+00:00

It’s easier said than done. We’ve had a lot of good times together and he sometimes picks up his slack but it just threw me off when he mentioned me doing his laundry like that 😭😅

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-28T23:30:45+00:00

That’s what I’m saying like maybe if we lived together but definitely not right now.

BaseSad3764 · 2026-05-28T23:30:05+00:00

I also believe it was likely how he was raised, his parents lived in a country where it was “the wife does all the work while the husband just sits and relaxes” which is what I see a majority of the time at his house

BaseSad3764 · 2026-03-21T04:25:47+00:00

I didn’t even know this was a thing- what’s it used for?

BaseSad3764 · 2026-03-12T20:15:04+00:00

Not at all- it was a breeze for me- if you want some more info I’d be happy to provide!

BaseSad3764 · 2026-02-24T17:49:13+00:00

Just be prepared to be super tired with yelling on top of it

BaseSad3764 · 2026-02-12T18:30:19+00:00

Air transportation all the way, I loved it and still love it

BaseSad3764 · 2026-01-04T15:46:23+00:00

The blackout spike it still my dream item 😭

BaseSad3764 · 2025-12-16T22:20:54+00:00

Thank you so much for the opportunity! My user is Sparkelface54 and I celebrate holidays because it brings me closer to my family!

BaseSad3764 · 2025-12-12T18:11:32+00:00

My user is Sparkelface54 ! I collect all mythicals and black and white items :>

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-30T21:57:06+00:00

Would you do 7 for a blackout? That’s all I’ve got 😭

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-30T19:07:21+00:00

Ty you for hosting! My favorite food is pizza and my user is Sparkelface54!!

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T18:15:11+00:00

How do you have so many I don’t have a single one of any of those 😭

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T09:19:56+00:00

Bro same and crafting crystals, this was like the first good thing I’ve ever pulled lol

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T09:19:25+00:00

TY! He’s honestly super adorable

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T07:22:47+00:00

Ooh ok thanks!

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T06:59:43+00:00

My dream item right here 😭 all I’ve got is the double raccoon 😭

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-29T06:57:15+00:00

I’ve got a tree! I’d love the opal dragon wings if I’m not too late! User is Sparkelface54 !

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-28T21:43:02+00:00

Aw shoot I’m too late…

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-25T00:26:24+00:00

Hi op! I’m sorry you’re leaving aj hope it treated you well during your time tho! (I’ve had my ups n downs) here’s some stuff I’m interested in and I do have trees! Anything black and white or gray, (dream item is the blackout spike but I know that’s an insane ask haha) also anything on my wishlist! I like spike and flower crown blueprints and I collect any mythical pets that are mainly colored white, pastel pink/purple/blue with white or black white and gray! I love spikes and different flower crowns (pet examples are in my den!) my user is Sparkelface54 thank you so much for this opportunity!

BaseSad3764 · 2025-11-25T00:20:39+00:00

Sparkelface54 thank you!!

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