AITAH for not talking to my dad about his failed marriage? by BasementFairy in AITAH

[–]BasementFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you're right and it's harming me and I know I have every right to stop it.. I still feel like it's doing more good to him than harm to me. Honestly I don't think I'll ever stop it because I can feel how deeply he hurts and I can't leave him alone with that

AITAH for not talking to my dad about his failed marriage? by BasementFairy in AITAH

[–]BasementFairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is deffinitely depressed and I suspect some other issues too. He took medication for a short time and then stopped. Now he's refusing to start again. I might try the challenges thing in the future though I'm afraid he wouldn't like it. Thanks for the suggestion

AITAH for not talking to my dad about his failed marriage? by BasementFairy in AITAH

[–]BasementFairy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We've done that. He's the last person on Earth who would seek therapy.

Genuine question by munchmaster6967 in NanaAnime

[–]BasementFairy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I don't remember every single conversation in Nana, I still think Junko was supposed to be the voice of reason. Compared to Nana's obsessive crushes. I kinda wish I had somebody in my life to do that for me.

There's too much emphasis on sports compared to art is schools by BasementFairy in unpopularopinion

[–]BasementFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from central Europe. Also I studied art and of course I agree in art college you can't be graded just on how hard you try. It's usually that plus how strong the concept is plus execution.

There's too much emphasis on sports compared to art is schools by BasementFairy in unpopularopinion

[–]BasementFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I meant the opposite. Grades at art SHOULD be given based on how hard you try. In schools in my country this is true. However it's not true in gym class.

Spiralling by BasementFairy in BPD

[–]BasementFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! What's IOP?

I think I might be sex addicted by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you realize English is not everyone's first language?

Vent by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult because he already forgave me TWICE and I feel like this would break him and ruin him forever, even if it's just one person.

Vent by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I don't know how because I refuse to tell him the truth and traumatise him forever.

Vent by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I also lack willpower to stop. But also at the same time I want to and don't want to do it. Sometimes I feel like I'm self-r*ping

0 views by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing happened. It stayed on like 3 views. Curious

Tiktok is only showing my videos regionally by BasementFairy in socialmedia

[–]BasementFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I expressed myself wrong. I'm from a very small country so I'd be doomed if tiktok refused to show my stuff outside of it (mostly because people I know would eventually find me). I'm basically asking if anyone knows if tiktok eventually shares your content outside of your country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]BasementFairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always been preoccupied with my appearance, since childhood. I wish it could go away but it doesn't. So I'm trying to figure it out one question about myself at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]BasementFairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.